Somehow I don't think my experience is representative of the typical first experience here. lol
Oh yeah, it was over 40 years ago, and it cost Five bucks.
My first experience with a paid sex provider was terrible, but my first experience with an escort was great and felt awesome. That was from an agency in Reno in the late 80s out of the yellow pages.
It was just a lousy 10 minute massage followed by a hand job.
But I thought it was great.
Hell, it was only $40. (1974)
but in my rather foggy recollection, she was older than me, but not by much. I have no idea if she was even 18, but as a 15 year old, I was hardly worrying if she was of age. lol
Either way, she has to be pushing 60 today, so I don't think I'll be looking her up to catch up on our lives. lol
it seemed like her only goal was to get me off as fast as possible and then out the door.
It felt very weird honestly. I had a lot of emotions and thoughts going through my head, since it was the first time I had sex with someone besides my SO in about 15 years. Honestly it was more awkward than when I lost my virginity.
disappeared for awhile, but just resurfaced and I finally got to see again.
She was/is absolutely fantastic.
I was right out of high school .It was right at the early stages of the internet, she looked nothing like her pictures and was new to business .It was awkward for both of us and I remembering think after it was over" that was it that's what all the hypes about" .Luckily I've had much better experiences in and out of the hobby sense then !
Also remember thinking how much it was like a girlfriend and wondering why it's not legal in most US jurisdictions. And then thinking I should always leave at least $1 at every civvie encounter so I can call upon a history of women in my defense that I pay for EVERYTHING!
My first encounter was 11 years ago with a lovely, French Canadian, sexy little firecracker named Laura Anik. She lived in Montreal, but she used to visit DC regularly during those days. It felt a bit scary when I was on the way because I was afraid I might meet law enforcement when I got there. But once I got to the room, she quickly put me at ease with a GFE session that felt so real it was incredible. Like we were long lost lovers! She was seasoned and awesome in every way!!
I got to know her quite well over the following few years, even spending some time together "off the clock." She has been retired a few years now. I recall our times together every so often, and I still miss my beautiful friend. So I got lucky on who I chose as my first. Partly lucky, that is. I did my homework using TER and it really paid off.I wanted to see someone really young, and she was a few months short of 19. It was going great until it came time to penetrate, and I wilted. She took it in stride and finished me off with her hands and mouth. Saw her about 2-3 years later, and was able to finish as we should, in the bag. Unfortunately, she is retired from the biz, but if she ever came back, I'd try to be first in line.
SwimAnd it sucked. I was clueless about all these boards, reviews, etc. It was a girl from backpage and let's just say the pictures were not exactly representative.
Fortunately I used it as motivation to get educated and my next experience was with a well-reviewed provider from TER who is now my ATF and I've seen several times. In many ways, the experience with the BP girl made the first with my ATF that much better. Contrast is a wonderful thingBut, Have had lots better since I found TER.