Does anyone know what the site record is for white list referrals and who holds that record?
And do you know how to encourage more providers to use this as a convenient free alternative/addition to the other verification methods?
And it's not a contest, in any case.
Nor is it a particularly appealing alternative to replace screening and verification of hobbyists by providers - hence the lack of overwhelming response or interest.
even pressuring girls to white list them. If i were a provider, i would contact the ones that didn't white list the hobbyist for screening.
I also still believe the only ones that should be allowed to see the white list are the providers. If it's mainly an aid to screening, hobbyists don't need to see them.
No, I didn't want to turn it into any kind of contest. I was just curious.
And I don't know about you but I've seen about 25 providers and NONE of them had ever checked my provider references. I ask them and they say it takes too much time or the fact that I gave them references is good enough. And some don't require anything. Some have given me their home address and told me to park in their garage without knowing anything about me.
RS2K and date check are good. I belong to date check. Either way, I think more providers should have some kind of verification. The white list is appealing in that it's convenient and free and you can click on a lady's profile to get her contact info or just PM her. It would make a good addition to the established screening methods and would be useful to ladies who don't screen at all which are probably the majority.
turns into a pissing contest and who really cares?
Personally have plenty of referrals and am listed with RS2K which makes it much easier on myself and the lady.
sgandolfs
> I am sincerely grateful that these ladies took a bit of their time to take such unsolicited action. To me it was a way for them to sort of pubically say 'Thanks for being a gent'. I do appreciate that...
> However as much as I am grateful, I think it will have little to no impact on influencing the screening requirements of my future dates with other ladies. If a lady uses references as an aid in her screening then she will likley look for a 360-degree (two-way) exchange with a previous provider and not just the 'white list' reference.
So for me, I never have nor will I ever ask a lady to post this about me. If she should do so then I will be somewhat humbled from a personal appreciation level. But I do not think that I will reap any other external benefits from it. On the other hand the 'white list' concept has not been out there too long and I'm not sure how known it really is within the TER community. Perhaps in time it may get more usage. I tend to think its intrinsic value beyond the personal touch is questionable.