on  1 hour appointment when do you initiate the fun with a lady?

I have had some licking my tonsils and taking off my clothes as soon as the door closes, and others easing into it with some conversation. If we are not both naked within 15 minutes though, somethings wrong, and things better start hsppening really quickly.  (unless it's a multi hour date.)

not the actual act but going from the conversation to the action. ever start within 5 minutes?

I have a tendency to get things going right away, after you've washed your hands/showered/etc. I save the talk for afterwards, because I've found when you talk first that sometimes you aren't able to get everything done by an hour. I'd much rather be "in action" for the first 50 minutes and then talk for 10 than to talk for 20 minutes and not be able to complete the deed! Though, I've never been a clock watcher type anyways, and often go over the set duration, but that's how I like to do things. I don't like to rush, ever. I like to enjoy myself as well as make sure you enjoy yourself.

usually within the first 5 minutes, sometimes a little longer.
Today I met with a lady I'd seen before, and we were DFK 5 seconds after I walked in the room.

With the lady I have seen the most, it is usually within 5 minutes, but with some others it has been as long as 10 minutes as we got thru preliminaries. I usually do 2 hours at least, though.

seems like you initiate. so  will  some guys pull back and want to slow things down and others go right at it?

Posted By: Jamie.Solo

I have a tendency to get things going right away, after you've washed your hands/showered/etc. I save the talk for afterwards, because I've found when you talk first that sometimes you aren't able to get everything done by an hour. I'd much rather be "in action" for the first 50 minutes and then talk for 10 than to talk for 20 minutes and not be able to complete the deed! Though, I've never been a clock watcher type anyways, and often go over the set duration, but that's how I like to do things. I don't like to rush, ever. I like to enjoy myself as well as make sure you enjoy yourself.

different it is for each.  

you start that quick?  

from reading this and your other replies in this thread, it seems like you go slow out of a sense of respect for the lady.
I think you can move things along quicker and still appear as a gentleman.
The ladies are there for you and expect action to start very fast.
You really don't need to worry about this.
If the conversation is going a bit long, just move closer to her on the bed as you are both still talking and start gently rubbing her arm or leg.  This will VERY quickly lead to more, as it communicates that you are ready for action.

More like the first five seconds in many cases.

Some of my faves greet me at the door with a DFK that might last the first five minutes that I am there, and it might be ten minutes before we even come up for air to say so much as hello. lol

This all varies of course, but for a one hour appointment, waiting an entire five minutes before getting started would seem like an eternity to me. I can't imagine going any longer than that "just talking" on an appointment that short.

you are correct and even more so on a first appointment. It takes me until 2nd or 3rd visit to get comfortable.

the moment I walk through the door.  I assume it is an unscientific way of getting a feel for whether I am LE

but with repeats, the initial hug & grop is about the time the latch clicks on the hallway.

That's when.