Assuming you and your lady do not hit it off (the chemistry is just not there) and she is not a "rip off", what is normal practice? Does she just leave with all the money? Does she give some/all of it back? Or is it normal to just go through the motions and get it overwith?
If you arrive, and you can tell right away, I have heard of some guys giving a very good tip, and leaving right away.
If you stay, the normal practice is that you paid the money, you get the time. Remember, you are paying for her time, and sex may just happen between 2 consenting adults. You bought the time, what you chose to do with it is your choice.
BTW: If you wonder about chemistry, then look for GFE. Some ladies are hot bodies with no personality. That you don't want.
Then you made a bad choice and you learn from the experience. All the more reason to: 1) Check as many reviews as possible or even PM another hobbyist who has seen her. 2) Book only an hour long session for the first time you see her.
You can't go asking for your money back just because she didn't turn out like you thought. She knows even less about you and isn't going hand you back your money and ask you to leave because you didn't turn her on. There are definite risks in this hobby as with most things in life.
In this realm.. We go on the notion.. you are paying for our time...
At times.. you will meet an honest and true girl, that will in fact, say dont worry, I totally understand... a tip is fine..
This has happened to me only once.. and it was because a man had be confused with another girl from an agency that was named Ciara. ( her spelling was different. He had thought she went indy and put different pics up as a safeguard.. ( this was about 6 years ago )
So when he came in the room and saw I didnt have blonde hair and over 5'9 tall.. He was disappointed and realized his mistake.. I did not take the two hour donation.. but he did leave me a nice tip for the mishap.
Again, do your homework as noted
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-- Modified on 6/1/2005 3:23:38 AM
Rule #2: don't forget rule #1
Sorry. the devil made me do it.
This happens a lot and it's rarely the guys fault.
If the girl is not as hot as her photos then I tell her she's not what I was looking for and leave without paying a dime. It's her responsibility to use accurate photos. Anything else is a lie that leads to disappointment which is the dark side of the force. Just walk out.
If she's in a bad mood then I tell her that her attitude seems angry and you're not interested and leave without paying a dime. It's her job to be sweet and sexy and turn you on. If she's not doing that then don't waste a dime and go find a girl who needs the money enough to be nice. Just walk.
Generally you go see the girl and sit down and chat a few minutes before any money or details are discussed. If you like each other then proceed but take the time to figure out if you want to stay or save your cash for a more deserving girl.
You only tip girls who you want to return to. Personally I think their fee is tip enough! But if they go above and beyond what you expected then feel free to tip if you want. I think the real tip is in returning for another visit. If a girl wants to see me ONCE then she just does a standard session but if she wants me as a regular then she needs to go out of her way.
Take your time and play it cool and smart. Only fools rush in.
-- Modified on 5/27/2005 9:37:16 AM