When it rains it pours. Yesterday I had 3 cancellations,of course they were all last minute appointments but still irritaing none the less.  Being dressed up and ready to go,mentally prepared and all kind of sucks to be told last minute nevermind. Grrrrr.  

Just last week, a provider on the Minnesota board was complaining about the same problem.  I'm starting to wonder if there's a new crop of hobbyists showing up on the scene or something.  Like, new enough that they don't know what they're doing.  Anyway, chin up.  Shit happens, like anything else in life, you learn to to take the bad along with the good.  As far as advertising and getting a replacement client, know your options, I guess.  BP might not be your first choice, but I've found that as long as providers go with their gut feelings, well, you ladies have some pretty good survival instincts.  Or you can just make damn sure you have a savings built up to fall back on when things get slow or weird.

Both the guys and the girls are held to the same standards to maintain their memberships on P 411.

is just part of how it is. I personally don't look for a last minute replacement. One reason is I've already played out in my mind the direction of how I want things to go. Sometimes it's from what she's wearing, so how I initially great her, etc. I let my imagination roam.

For me its especially rough because I don't have a permanent incall. Nothing like getting a hotel and then having a cancellation... but it does happen. The more regulars you build up the less you will find it to be a problem and eventually it won't sting so much when there's a few cancellations.

I will try that. Yes, he made the confirmation and cancelled as I was finishing up. I was thinkingof emailing them but I wasn't sure if that would be out of line. Thank you.

BP is scary and I wouldn't even think of using.  Bills are paid and I have a professional career as well....$$$ isn't the concern here. Getting all dressed up and using make up,time,energy and naughty thoughts just to be blown off. I had blue lips ...gggrrrr hahaha. I'll probably just stay clear of newbies requesting last minute or late appointments. In this case sadly they weren't all new. The 3rd was a very well 👌 p411 client.

I feel if there's enough complaints then it's more likely Gina will take some action. Even a warning email may be enough to deter future bad behavior. When clients behave badly, it doesn't just affect providers. It also affect all of us.

I think this is happening more because ladies aren't reporting it enough and feel bad doing it. Especially for people who cancel often.

....rather than any NCNS's. Yeah it sucks to be cancelled on, especially at the last minute, but I'll take that over a NCNS any day of tbe week.

...No Call No Show ie. he didn't show up and didn't call to let you know.

Calling to cancel at the last moment is just shy of a NCNS IMHO. The point of using P411 is that there is an unspoken expectation that this type of behavior won't occur. Granted life happens and this occurs, but both sides need to ensure it doesn't go unnoticed.

It would be rather hypocritical for me not to advise the ladies to stand up for themselves when this kind of crap happens to them.

listed on p411, email signature, when confirm the date, on your website... etc... (so that way they can't miss the information)>

Saturday at 10:30 am I got an email from a visiting provider that I had contacted but wasn't able to book.
I bet she had a cancellation and was basically sending me a "you up?" email  lol

....a sexy picture from a nice hotel room....I just might run there if I had the time.
Of course there is screening etc.

How does one enforce it?

...made me think you were considering reporting them to P411.  Possibly you meant you would try what he said about your ad.

type of behavior?

and u got a pm

if they did cancel then it's not NCNS

Sorry!! thats not a good feeling.Cancellation policy has definetly cured my cancellation blues! Never had a need for one fortunately until i kid you not i had 9 cancellations in a row over the course of a little over a week so no pay immidetly added policy just to be safe.

2 were new so yes the other one was well verified and ok on p411.

You can't enforce it, except by refusing to see him again. That costs ladies clients, but the point of the policy is to deter last minute cancellations and NCNSs. If it also happens to deter repeat visits, you gotta weigh the upside against the down. Lotsa ladies care more about cancellations than repeaters who haven't kept at least one appointment. Which often means more in the future.  

The way Maddy did this; talking more about missing out on the action than losing money, not being all whining and annoying, responding to those who responded to her, etc, it kinda makes me want to see her.

I hope you do

Actually I missed the dick ...don't be so salty fancy...it's very unbecoming.

It does.

"No reason to talk shit about pro."??  Fancy, as far as I can tell, your the only one here doing that. Good luck with your car.