I am struggling to figure out, should I say 'thank you' to a provider [and truly mean it]? I want to be a gentleman. I want her to feel dignified and respected. But I am afraid. Am I insulting her? Am I breaking etiquette? If it is the wrong thing to say, how else should I show my appreciation? Please I would greatly appreciate some thoughts from the providers and regular members alike. Sorry if this has been asked before.
... to thank someone for a wonderful time?
If you had a great time then absolutely let her know! Some men say thanks with a bit of extra cash at the end of a great session, others don't. What you are most comfoortable with is up to you.
Just new to this stuff. I am just always thinking I did something wrong or I accidentally staying a few minutes later than I should.
Hi! A thank you is wonderful and will leave a smile on her face I promise. I am a provider who thanks with meaning every one of my friends! They generally say thank you as well and some even follow up with an email! Have fun and a thank you is every bit the gentleman!! Lisa
If that is the way you really feel, hell yes just say it... I have not been slapped yet for saying thankyou and giving out a warm good-bye hug. (Well, the exception to that was a domme who bitch slapped me - why should she step out of character?)
then you can say 'thank you'.....
Just go with the flow and don't sweat things like that.......... do what you think is right....
-- Modified on 4/30/2007 8:38:43 AM
Sometimes it is hard to know if a gentleman has enjoyed his time as much as he'd hoped, a simple thank you can make our day!
reaction. I don't think you can be too much of a gentleman.
A kind word or gesture goes far. Also, since I tend to go over on time, I'm probably not the one to give advice on time issues.
Unless the session was downright horrible, I always end with a quick "thank you, I had a nice time". It's usually during the final hug by the door. Most providers, whether they did or did not, will usually say they enjoyed the time as well. It's a nice and simple way to end.
I don't think saying thank you would be wrong at any time during your meeting. For example:
she: hi honey welcome back
me: thank you
she: you like a drink?
me: yes thank you
...
she: lets switch positions
me: ok thank you
...
me: vow that was incredible baby, thank you
-- Modified on 5/2/2007 8:54:04 PM
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