But am sorta embarrased to ask the ladies to do that.   Do the ladies get such requests commonly?  Is it a turnoff or uncomfortable for you (and I understand that varies by person, but waned to get am idea)?

I personally have a huge daddy fantasy.

For other providers,  
how about kindly (without sexual references) mention you have a daddy fantasy or say you like to be called daddy when emailing  

its not weird.

Amen to that julia

Not to disagree with anything you said, but the OP didn't mention anything about children. It could be a 35 year oldwoman and her 60 year old "daddy."

the word "daddy" being nothing different from the "daddy" in the phrase "who's your daddy", you might be able to get some more consenting providers.  It's about the same as "Papi" in spanish or "Oppa" in that song gangnam style. lol

If you say it in way that implies she's your daughter, there are providers who are ok with that too. I've seen on the boards guys asking for providers who are ok with a Mother Son fantasy, a Father Daughter role play.  

Some consider it just a role play fantasy while others consider it offensive and taboo.  

I'm curios though, what is so special about being called daddy? Just trying to understand what kind of fantasy this is and what kind of memories in the brain does it trigger?

Daddy's are caring and protective and loving and assertive.  
As women naturally desire to be cared for, men like to feel in control and strong

Of course I know this isn't everyone and women can be dominant and men submissive
But in general, those are the natural tendencies

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Fuck that felt odd... but I don't think I'll ever forget that moment. HAHAHAHA
PM me I'll tell you who.  

It's odd being called a daddy, but I can't say that I was offended by it. Just a different kind of experience I guess. Still odd, but different. I guess it was nice because she was hot. I don't know what to think. LOL

It's quite a turn on for me. I love calling a client daddy in the in the heat of the moment. If a clients really gets me hot and excited and at me peak I have been known to call him "Papi."  Guys usually love it and it turns them on in return to make our tryst even more heart pounding.

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