There's a provider in my area I've been trying to see the last few months. I was screened and she said I passed. Since then, I've been getting nothing but excuses why any day I pick won't work. Some things I understand the monthly visitor, booked for the day ect. But some of reasons I've been given aren't that good if you ask me. My question is, move on or try again to set something up. I've heard she's a good provider and can help me live out one of my fantasies so, really want to see her. I just don't know what I did to scare her off.
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number. Looks like she is trying to tell you something. You should move on, all signs say that for some reason she does not want to spend time with you. There should be other provider's near you that offer the services that she does.
So far we've only talked by email. My last one hasn't gotten a response yet.
Said something to make her think I'm LE. (I'm not) What are some topics that might make a provider think you're LE? I never disscussed money or ask any sexual questions.
You said in your first post you've been trying to arrange a date for a few months and she has put off seeing you everytime.
How often do you contact her? As well intentioned as you most likely are, perhaps she is mistaking your persistence and enthusiasm for something else.
Till recently, It had been a month or 2 since I contacted her last. How do I reassure her I'm not LE? If there is a way to do that.
I think its time to move on. The constant excuses are her way of saying please don't call...No different than if you were trying to date her, for some reason she doesn't want to see you...
It might not be anything you did. You have to consider that possibly after screening, she may feel like she might know you or you may know someone who knows her. Perhaps you are in the same profession as someone she knows.