i am very new to the hobby. how do you ask a provider about what she offers. do you use terms like DFK or DATY or greek or do you describe the act itself. Can you talk about this over the phone when you are setting up the session or is that going to make her suspiscous or turned off. advice from professionals and providers would be appreciated.
No provider I know of is going to talk to you about what she offers. Assuming you are going to see a well reviwed lady You should be able to tell from the reviews whay she offers
It's best to read reviews and find out that way. Asking a provider questions of a sexual nature is a no no.
money changes hands ... or if she has reviews or a website ... tell her that you have a question concerning her website or reviews about a certain act that your not clear on ... be polite, don't do this on your first e mail though .. let her get a comfort level with you first then be polite and ask...
She will hang up on you if you start asking any questions that pertain to illegal activities even if you use acronyms or code words. She's going to think you are LE.
Check her reviews or email others who have seen her if you want to know what she will and will not do during your encounter.
Also, keep in mind there is chemestry between the provider and the client. If you as the client are polite well gromed have fresh smelling breath etc. you may do better than someone else who is not as clean and polite. YMMV Your mileage may vary. It's a two way street. If you have your act together you may get more than the review states and if your are a stinking slob you may get less. Either way read the reviews and you will have a good idea of what to expect. The rest is up to you.