I'm about to see my first provider and something I noticed was that she doesn't verify you through anything as far as I know based on reviews and when I called her. She has a very good amount of reviews and when I had vip they seemed legitimate, but this little thing just started to bother me out of no where when I noticed it and since I'm not too familiar with this hobby yet I was wondering if it's common thing to do. Some reviews that I read involved no verification process just a quick LE check at arrival and a 2 call system. Thank you in advance for those who reply.

If you're on any verification sites, she might have used your contact info to do a quick check.  

The best kept secret in this hobby is how providers verify you..you might not think they do..but they most certainly do when their very livelihood depends on it..

Most of the reviews I read just mentioned a quick 2 or 3 call system and a LE check. She has 50+reviews, she only answers the phone, no texts or emails. I could post her link if you would like to see it and thank you.

The closets thing I read to anything that relates to a verification in some way was that the client was given a wrong number to the room to the room and mentioned it might have been a way to scope him out. She seems legit and has 50+ reviews which I can longer see since my Vip ran out, and she's consistent with her ads. Thank you my instincts tell me she's legitimate but my inexperience in this hobby messes up that judgement. I could post her link if you would like to take a look and thank you.

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

If you're on any verification sites, she might have used your contact info to do a quick check.    
   
 A 2-call system is NOT a verification process; neither is an "LE check".   I cannot tell you how stupid & worthless the latter is.   I'm not saying you believe it has any value, it's just a pet peeve of mine and I could not let it go unremarked.  Seriously, I just couldn't.      
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 However, there are ladies who don't screen.  Even some who claim to always screen sometimes let things slide, based on their instincts about a guy.    
   
 So that doesn't always equate to a red flag.  There used to be a provider in my area who was known for not screening when she was feeling hard-up for cash.  She'd been arrested many times, but considered it to be the cost of doing business as she could take far more clients without screening than if she did screen.  
 She often had another lady with her for safety and the only real complaints about her were that she was inconsistent in her behavior, services, punctuality, etc.    
   
 So the lack of screening alone doesn't really mean much.    
   
   
 That being said, though, trust YOUR instincts.  
   
 If you're feeling uncomfortable/unsure about her, then cancel.    
   
   
   
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Or just give us her TER ID# and we can all sleuth away from there!  

Sometimes when I ask a provider for a playdate they don't ask for references, but at least they will ask for my TER handle, so I guess they are using the WL only. But it can be very unnerving to request a date w/o submitting references and in her return email all she asks for is what date and time!

This should be it, 178134. Thank you

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Or just give us her TER ID# and we can all sleuth away from there!    
   
 Heck, I love a good research project.   No, that's not sarcasm; I really enjoy getting to the bottom of things,  finding info and stats to compare & contrast.  You know: research.    
   
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Alrighty, here's my impression:  if you're new, this provider may not be the best option.  By new, I mean you've seen no other providers or perhaps only 1 or 2.   Unless of course, you're already quite jaded and/or would like a -ahem- nitty gritty, bare bones P4P experience.  

Thank you so much! I'm already aware that her pics are not her and everything else. None of it really bothers me and she's my best option for someone from my location and ability to travel, but again thank you so much for helping me

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Alrighty, here's my impression:  if you're new, this provider may not be the best option.  By new, I mean you've seen no other providers or perhaps only 1 or 2.   Unless of course, you're already quite jaded and/or would like a -ahem- nitty gritty, bare bones P4P experience.    
   
   
 I read quite a few of her reviews and nothing really stands out to me as a negative except this: the pics are likely NOT her even though she apparently does reasonably resemble an older version of the chick in the photos.  She typically works out of a cheap motel and there are multiple reports of a strong smoke odor in the room.    
   
 At her low rate, she might be more high-volume (get more clients at a low-low price than a few at average prices in the same time period) than others....... meaning you may not feel as though you are getting a personalized, intimate experience.   Not that that would necessarily be a bad thing! There's nothing wrong with a provider operating this way but you need to decide if that's what you're seeking: a sort of no-frills, illusion-free, tit for tat exchange.  
   
 Please don't think I'm knocking providers or agencies who run their businesses this way as I'm absolutely not.  My rates were about the same as hers when I started with my very first agency.  (Please note that is not the agency referenced in my early reviews, but another one from way back in the pre-internet stone age of the biz lol)  
   
   
 As a few of her reviewers have been around for several years, I'd be inclined to trust that this provider is legit, screening or no.    
   
 Oh, and I highly recommend renewing your VIP to read her most recent reviews prior to visiting.    
   
   
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Any woman at her price point in NY is not going to be sophisticated enough to screen you with you knowing, but I would say if your worry is that she is LE or going to rip you off, you should be on pretty safe ground.

I met a girl down in carolina, who used to be a paralegal( so she says) and when she answers the door, she tells the guys to take her hand and put it on " big poppa" then leads him into the room for the session.. when she told me this,, it was all I could do to keep my mouth from dropping open.. to her credit she has never been popped..     go figure.

You would be amazed at some of the bullshit people both buy into and try to sell here where it comes to the hobby. Thankfully there are plenty of experienced members hanging around to set the newbs (and some REALLY dumb non newbs) straight when someone posts this kind of foolishness.

Sometimes they can screen you with your phone number, email and other bits of info, but you are right. I'd be concerned if she wasn't asking for your full name at least. With your TER info she can pull your reviews and contact one or two providers you have seen and you'd never know it.

Good! That's because there is NO such thing as a LE check. I see this BS repeated in reviews all the time and I can't believe people believe it. The LE Check is a myth that some people believe that if you kiss or touch "parts" that it can't be LE because cops can't let you touch their dicks. Right! It's a dumb myth and there is NO such thing.