I experienced my first time with a provider yesterday. I only had a CBJ as that was all I desired at the time. She also made oral contact with my balls. Now I'm worried that I caught something (HIV especially). This worry I have is a sign to me that this hobby is definitely not for me and I will be hanging up the towel. Now I'm just wondering if I should get tested for HIV or any other diseases? Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!

-- Modified on 11/8/2004 5:17:31 AM

Get tested if you want to and if it will set you at ease.  There is a very very very very very very very very very slim chance of HIV transfer from her to you given the fact that it was a covered BJ.  Ball licking isn't a huge concern because HIV has a very difficult time living in saliva, although if you had and cuts/skin breaks on your sack there could be a very infintessimal chance of virus transfer.

I think you are right - this probably isn't the hobby for you if you are that worried over a CBJ!

HIV with a BJ is highly unlikely. With CBJ it would be nearly impossible.

Even giving a BJ is not a terribly high risk activity for HIV, a CBJ is very, very slim. If you got any STD from a CBJ it would be something more in the range of HSV-1 or HPV. Even then, the risk is pretty slim. Nevertheless, go to your heathcare provider, get the tests and sleep better.

Agreed.  There is very little chance of catching any STDs from this activity.

Go donate some blood.  They'll test your blood for EVERYTHING.  If it isn't clean, they'll dump it.  If it is, they'll use it.  It's a win win situation for you and the blood bank.

Unfortunately they'll test it long after you leave the donation center.  Then they may, or may not, inform you if it does test positive for something.  Donating blood is NOT the way for you to get these tests.

If you start to live the lifestyle...you go from that to BBBJ to DATY and dude all that is very safe...you "may" catch something but it ain't gonna be HIV...imagine providers who ingest cum all day, they are just fine 99% of the time

Of course they test it after you leave the donation center.  And they certainly WILL notify you if they do not use your blood and give the reason.  I know this through a personal friend who donated blood (not for this reason we are discussing)

The odds are not in your favor, my friend.  I can't believe you let her make oral contact with your balls!  That was a very dumb thing to do.  RIP.

I used to work in a  donation center, both for Plasma and whole blood.  The industry policy was to test - everything was tested - but if the unit came back positive, it was placed aside.  It didn't matter what it came back positive for.  The donors were never notified, as the industry as a whole is understaffed and in general blood donation centers don't have the time to try and track down the donors.

See, for every  "personal friend" somebody has, somebody else has a "personal friend" with the opposite story.  I speak from experience inside the industry.  Test - always.  Notify when postive - rarely.  No time, no money, no personnel to do it.

hopefully they will find a cure for it before you die.

A cure for what?  I didn't specify any disease in my post.  If you are talking to the original poster, please reply to that post!

It's quite obvious your donation center was not up to snuff.  Communicable disease are required by LAW to be reported to the state department of health....disease such as HIV, syphilis, etc..etc..

Yes.  No argument there.

However, public health offices who are supposed to follow these cases are grossly overworkd and woefully undermanned.  Add that to the fact that many donors give false addresses/phone numbers, and it creates situations where public officials spend inordinate amounts of time trying to find people who don't care if they are found or not.  This creates apathy in those offices, and as such it often takes weeks/months before they finally track down those who did give legitimate information, if they bother tracking them down at all.

It's a bad scene all the way around.  Everybody agrees it needs to be fixed, but nobody wants to provide the funding to fix it.

help out one of the not so smart people (thats me) and please tell me what does infintessimal mean?

Very tiny/small
Practically not at all
So minor as to not count.


Good enough?

yeah that works for me thanks.(man i got to buy a dictionary)

i think your freaking out for no reason.besides your assuming she has something you could catch which might not even be the case she uses covers so that means she is at least trying to be safe.

I don't understand what happens here?
She orally lick your ball.
I don't think that will cause anything.
There are so many kiss or DFK between provider and hobbyist.
I am lost.
Can any body explain to me what happened?

you had 0 risk, you are freaking out. if she was bleeding profusely from her mouth (ie, she had just been hit in the face with a hammer) and you had an open sore on your balls and she bled directly into it, id recommend testing.