The ladies profile and reviews should give a clear indication of services available. To clarify any doubts or particular concerns I have found using euphemisms/metaphores to travel or food work well.

IE:
I often vacation in the Mediterranean and especially love the city of Athens and the Isle of Crete. Are you also a fan of those vacation spots Trixxy?

OR

The last time my date treated me to her French cooking the richness of it drained my appetite prematurely.

  Your average Craig's List advertiser may be clueless to what you are alluding to but most Savvy, well reviewed TER providers will catch the drift.



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tell her you are ter approved ( LOL ) give her the providers you have seen. It was your first mistake with me.. you were totally New here.. no reviews and you wanted to talk of sex through email and how i should dress

So you should know a lot going in. The important thing is how you react. I suggest that you start slowly, focus on satisfying her first, this will help with pre-mature ejaculation. Kiss around her body then DATY her if you are into that. Once you have gotten her going let her start on you, at this point you should mention the preE problem, she should know how to help you hold off a bit. Let the session flow naturally, do not try to force anything. She almost surely offer multiple pops so don't be so concerned about when you spill your first.

Re:How to get what I want, or, how do I make both of us happy

I wish I had your problem, It takes me hours to cum, but when i do it cums for 5 to 7 minutes! I ask a doctor he said It must be nice! No ed