I'm a fresh face here and the trainer i'm working with has been very helpful. Unfortunately, the last two male clients stiffed us, when they were supposed to get only one of us and only a bbbj (lots of terms, wow)..
How do we not get stiffed/jipped.
I've been researching ads and alot of the pricer women expect the gentlemen to place the donation in a sealed white envelope and place is on a table, etc.
Second question:
How do I begin to go solo without getting caught by LE?
Third question:
Most of the clients don't clean very well down south--they are musty...I don't want to have that smell lingering in my nostrils all day....how do i ask them to clean better yet, how can i clean them with their permission?
any sentual ways to wash a man down there without them freaking out!! (that homo thing has them totally paranoid).
Fouth question:
many men want to see me just to know its really me..i don't want any pictures with my face showing....i want to get paid for driving to see them....i think it only fair...they are wasting my time!
to the hobby that I question whether you are in the right business. The naiive nature of the questions and the fact that you keep attracting smelly men that rip you off is SAD!!!! Whoever your "trainer" is doesn't seem to have a grasp of the hobby either as you state she TOO gets ripped off. You sound like a nice girl that should clearly be doing something else.
"trainer" or a new line of of work. Your situation is SAD at best. I suggest you contact a well reviewed provider and ask her for some advice. What part of the country are you in that all the men are smelly thieves?????
How do we not get stiffed/jipped.
I've been researching ads and alot of the pricer women expect the gentlemen to place the donation in a sealed white envelope and place is on a table, etc.
ANY woman ("pricey" or not) should have the donation placed in an UNSEALED envelope prior to the session. Be sure there is no misunderstanding as to how much it is (clearly posted on your web site). You can discretely go into the bathroom and count it.
Second question:
How do I begin to go solo without getting caught by LE?
References......references and more references....
Third question:
Most of the clients don't clean very well down south--they are musty...I don't want to have that smell lingering in my nostrils all day....how do i ask them to clean better yet, how can i clean them with their permission?
any sentual ways to wash a man down there without them freaking out!! (that homo thing has them totally paranoid).
Ask them to kindly take a shower. You could always shower with them and wash them.
Fouth question:
many men want to see me just to know its really me..i don't want any pictures with my face showing....i want to get paid for driving to see them....i think it only fair...they are wasting my time!
You don't have to post photos of your face. Many successful ladies don't. That is a head scratcher about driving to see them. The guy does have the right to refuse for whatever reason...he doesn't think there is chemistry. That one is just doing business.
I ask that only serious answers to my questions be given....remember this is supposed to be a helpful board for NEWBIES.
Some men do come straight from work or come visit us during their lunch breaks and men do sweat especially if they are nervous or excited about coming to see us!
Also, references? When using Craigslist, how are we supposed to get references and where do the references come from?
Thank you for the supportive answers.
Some men do come straight from work or come visit us during their lunch breaks and men do sweat especially if they are nervous or excited about coming to see us!
I would ask them to shower if they are sweaty. It is always a polite thing to do before anyway.
Also, references? When using Craigslist, how are we supposed to get references and where do the references come from?
The references come from the past ladies the guy has seen. Ask them as part of the screening process. You can then contact the lady.
Also instruct them before hand that the envelope is to be left on the bathroom sink before hand.
Politely excuse yourself to "freshen up"..and count the donation in private and out of site. Safe and yet still polite.
Wow, I'm surprised to here you got stiffed. I got ripped-off in Florida a couple years ago and my buddy really had a bad incident in central Pennsylvania. It seems to me, the hobbyist is much more at the mercy of the provider and in greater danger of getting ripped-off.
My suggestion to you is that you find a tactful way of putting something on your web site that says you enjoy giving greater pleasure to fresh, clean men. To me, a shower is a nice courtesy. I showered right before my recent providers showed up and I got wonderful BBBJ service from both. One used to do CIM according to reviews, but said that her agency recently told her all BJs should be CBJ, but she enjoyed giving me BBBJ. I guess my point is that these men should be nice enough to freshen up for you and perhaps you can request that in your ads.