If I could start over, I would start with sensual massage, and work my way up.  I did not do that.  Although the providers I saw had great attitudes, I was not able to perform up to my best.  Had a sensual massage after seeing 3 escort providers with much better results.  PM me and I will elaborate further if you like.

There's nothing like a good relaxing massage to get rid of the jitters and allow yourself the permission to go on to new a greater hights.

Don’t scare a newbie to pieces!
I’ve hand several first timers and they all left with a smile and plenty of confidence. I say take your time in researching and find a provider that you are attracted to and that you feel comfortable with her reputation….. (*besides, if a first time experience is with a top provider then you start your hobby with the bar high *LOL*)
Have fun and enjoy your new adventure….

Know your provider…. (*And her reputation*)    Kisses ~Tori


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I don't recommend a sensual massage as a stepping stone into the hobby.  Instead, just get a full-service provider that would be accomodating to a newbie's needs.  Usually, although not always, it would be someone over 25 (it takes living to get good at giving) with good reviews.  During your appointment, just come out and say that it's your first time using a service.

My first experience with a provider was very nice, although nerve-wrecking at first.  She explained various hobby-related things to me, gave me words of encouragement, and even gave me a quick clothed massage.  My only gripe was a lack of DFK (her rule), but that's not what I was there for, lol.