Newbie - FAQ
While I've not tried it myself, the reports I've heard from other ladies indicate that it will lead to a lot of timewasters. Also, I would be very, VERY hesitant to meet anyone ANYWHERE, even in public, without screening them first. What if that "potential client" ends up being a local undercover reporter wanting to cash in on all the news stories about escorting that have been going on recently? Or what if it's your uncle Joe? Or your boss?
It sounds like they've changed since your initial post, but as far as your rates go, I think they're fine, and your screening requirements don't sound outlandish either. I didn't get my own domain name until this past summer, and I was well-established by then, so while it may help I don't think it's *that* important. YMMV.
I think a lot of clients (and ladies wanting to enter the biz) don't appreciate how difficult it is to get started. It's like opening any other small business -- the first few months to a year you're struggling to keep on your feet and turn a profit. What helped me the most when I started was getting that first review. That put me on the radar and established that I was a legitimate provider (and not going to gut you for your wallet or otherwise abuse your person). Send a follow-up email to every new (good) client you see, thanking him for his time and letting him know that you'd enjoy seeing him again ... and then ask him if he'd write you a review. While plenty have declined, I've yet to have anyone insulted by the suggestion. 
Edited to add: Find as many free advertising sites as you can and post on them! It costs you nothing but a little time, and while you may not get big returns initially, it will familiarize people with your name. Every little bit helps! Interaction on discussion boards such as this one (and others more local to your area) will go a long, long way in establishing your credibility and will help you get the attention of clients who might otherwise overlook you.
-- Modified on 2/8/2009 8:42:44 AM
I understand where you're coming from, NCISFAN. It's a little like a hostage situation, someone has to take a chance and stick their neck out if you're a newbie. However, the ratio of providers v hobbyists being targeted, (to me at least, and I'll admit I'm bias) warrants the caution I am trying to take. Also, as cliche as it sounds, men are in fact physically stronger and every single person has a right to feel safe, hence the diligence. Like I said, I understand where you're coming from and it blows for people who are genuinely trying to have some fun and enjoy life. Anyway, my two unwanted cents
...remember that negotiating a lower rate in exchange for a review is verboten in these parts. 
