how do I tell if I have been whitelisted? will some one give me a primer on the benefits of being whitelisted? how long does it last? do you need multiple providers whitelisting you, etc...
I know this has been covered in the past yet I cant seem to find all I need/want on the subject.... a link? a discussion?thank you so much, in advance
go to reviews, click on the button that says 'search'. When the drop-down menu appears, click on 'search by reviewers' and enter your handle. When the list of your reviews comes up, scroll down to the bottom, your WL referrals will be listed there.
It lets providers know that some of the providers you have seen deem you safe for others to see. This is good for you. You want providers know you are an OK guy. It helps them in screening you prior to visiting with you. It lasts as long as you are a member in good standing. The more you have, the better. Hope this helps.Swim
thank you so very much sir!!!
Ckick on the "3" next to "reviews" under your handle on this post or any post you made. Your whitelists would be under your reviews. Right now you don't have any. (unless you turned them off, which you can do in account manager)
Below is a link to the whitelist FAQ which should probably answer your other questions....A whitelisting will be removed if the provider is de-listed/retires. And the provider who gave you a whitelisting can also remove it at any time.
Oh, man!!
Once you join the club, it opens a wonderful world of... shhh.... FREE SEX!! Well... you have the supply the lotion and rosy but its FREE!!!Question though, is it automatically removed if provider is delisted or retired?
Swim-- Modified on 2/18/2015 10:05:09 PM
...so after the laughs answer the guys question.
What useful information do you have to share about TER white list?
(eom)
Swim -- Modified on 2/18/2015 10:05:09 PM
Is it rude or presumptuous to ask her to whitelist you after one visit if you had a good visit and she seems to agree that you're a nice, respectful guy? Or should you wait until multiple visits? I notice that there are many members who have a lot of reviews but no whitelists (perhaps they're focusing on p411 instead).
Some ladies are happy to WL after seeing you once, some prefer to see you several times first and others don't use the WL system. It's a nice little thankyou for being a good guy when you get a whitelist without asking for it.
I like to take shots at least as much as the next person, but on this board at least, if you can't be helpful, please just STFU. You can have all the fun on the GD and regional boards, but this board is the place where there are no stupid questions, so let's try not to give out any stupid answers, ok?
I try to get both White Listings and Oks on P411. I always send an Okay request on P411 within a few hours of having the session as it's fairly easy for a lady to approve the request from what I understand.
As far as White Listing, I usually wait until after I've done a review and once that's posted, I send her a note asking to be added to her white list. I know, I know, white listings are not supposed to be contingent on a good review, but it's just an easier way to introduce the subject. But, I'd never trade one for the other. When I have just a mediocre session, fortunately only once or twice, I don't bother with either.He did it under an alias.
Thank you2015 = 28
You MUST ask for a P 411 okay, the provided can not give you one unless you ask for it, also the ladies get credit for giving okays on P 411 and are usually eager to give them, assuming you aren't a stalker, axe murderer and know how to wash your ass and brush your teeth. lol
Whitelists are a different story, any provider can give any hobbyist a whitelist if she so chooses, she can also revoke it at any time she feels fit to do so. It is also not unheard of for a lady to give a whitelist to a guy she has never seen. I can state this from personal experience, I have a whitelist from a woman that I only met socially at a M&G.
Personally I think P411 okays are more valuable than TER whitelists. There are very few women that will screen you strictly by your whitelists, but there are many women that will see you based strictly on your P 411 okays. I doubt that I provide references above and beyond P 411 okays more than once a year, and I am sure I see at least a hundred different ladies a year.
but I have a healthy sex drive, I am happily divorced with no SO, and I don't date a lot of civvie women anymore, so seeing two new girls a week really doesn't seem like that big a deal to me, and with no wife or kids to support, the money is not that big a deal either. Now if I had a wife and kids to support, that would be a completely different matter.