Please be gentle, this is indeed a newbie board. I understand that I can lessen my risks of getting STDs if I choose a provider that uses coats for everything (BJ and sex). Let's say the provider I want to see does BBBJs. I should be OK if I use a hood for everything, right?
I really want to loose my virginity to his hobby (no I am not a virgin, just to this hobby) and like a particular gal. It just so happens, one of her best services is BBBJCIM and she swallows. I know I have a rare gem here, but that is not on my menu.
Thanks again for your help. Most everyone on this site has been more than helpful including the lovely ladies.
to put a cover on when requested. What she OFFERS is just that, an offer. She won't be offended, and you will be safer and, more importantly for her and you, more comfortable with the session.
The problems usually occur in the reverse - guys asking ladies who only do CBJ's to take the cover off, or pressuring for CIM.
Relax, go see her, and ask for what you want.
Good luck
(caps used for emphasis, not shouting)
Enjoy yourself!
Helpful, thanks so much for your words of encouragement. I simply want a discreet and safe as possible encounter for my 1st. As to the comment by one of the other posters, if she doesn't like the taste of latex, she won't like the color of my money.
HelpfulHobbyist is right. I cannot imagine a lady would feel offended if you asked for protection at all time. I think she would rather appreciate your carefulness since most other guys would ask for the exact opposite.
Regardless how alluring their partner is neither side should do something they are uncomfortable with. It your health you are putting at risk and she appears to have accepted that risk.
even more than the possible risk of STDs, which is statistically very small if the gent is clean and the lady spits or swallows and uses a rinse promptly.