Newbie - FAQ

hobbyist race/ethnicity
captainmal28 2348 reads
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Been reading the newbies board for a while, and I haven't seen anything about discrimination on race.  So do the providers not care about this?

LadiLuver1348 reads

The majority don't care.  They're more concerned about whether you're a gentleman, clean, respectful, etc.

There are enough horror stories posted to indicate that you should let any lady know your racial status you may wish to see beforehand.   You don't want to get turned way at the door!  

-- Modified on 2/12/2009 1:56:23 AM

I agree. I personally care more about the gentleman's manners/ hygiene but I know that there are providers who will not see a certain race based on the experiences they have had with a particular race or perhaps how they were raised as one of the many reasons a provider may not see a client. So you should definitely let a girl know in advance what race you are and there shouldn't be a problem. If she doesn't want to see you, she may pointedly ignore phone calls/email. Simple.

Zangari1423 reads

I noticed a young blonde (quite beautiful) on BackPage who explicitly stated:in her ad:  "No black gentlemen, please."  

So she's quite willing to see me, but not Denzel Washington.   --z

I could care less about the color you are, as long as we have mutual respect and your safe and your references check out for me?? your good to go!
Jay

From a guys perspective,,,,It's all PINK on the inside!
Doesn't matter the color of your skin!!!
So,ladies of color,,,Bring It On!...LOL!

Yo_Momma_BBW1946 reads

Use the  search word "Race"  or "color" in your search. Go back 1200 days in the search. Many ladies won't see various ethnicities, religions, or AGES for various personal reasons. Escorting is NOT equal opportunity in all instances. That's just the way it is when body fluids get exchanged.

I personally get excited when I meet people with different ethnic backgrounds, I like to learn about different cultures and upbringing they had.  Being a mixture of Nicaraguan/Irish, most people look at me with a baffled expression trying to figure out where I get my features from, I doubt I will meet someone who shares the same ethnic background.  That is part of what makes us unique.

xxxo,

Penelope

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