Being a newbie and after reading the photo's of johnson thred I thought I might as well ask if providers really care how big or small your johnson is. To be honest thou I still feel a little intimadated, even thou I'm of average size, because I assume providers and society as a whole places such an emphasis on physical beauty and how size, the bigger the better, matters.

I can guarantee that they don't care, and from what I've read, might be more concerned about the really big ones out there.

Providers want you to be clean, on time, courteous, and respectful.   For the most part physical attributes are irrelevant.

They don't care what you look like, how big you are or how good you are in the sack. That doesn't mean that a good lady isn't going to enjoy herself with a guy who is polite, clean and has a good attitude. Relax and enjoy! Unlike in the real world, she is a sure thing and if you want a second date all you have to do is come up with the donation!

Welcome to TER!

And as Boston said, providers don't really care about size.  And if it's only 2 inches, then honey it's the best 2 incher she's ever seen.  

But seriously, from my experinces in our provider forum and for myself it's not the size of the ride but the motion of the ocean.

And with escorts (and me) in some cases extra large may mean not getting a date, because we have to think about tomorrow and if we can't walk after it hurts business.  

So relax, don't worry that you are going to get disrespected over penis size, and have fun.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

Just as everyone has said before,it most definetly doesnt matter.I recently had a wonderful date with a friend,dinner,holding hands etc,when we were alone his size was not a factor and performance was great,my advise make a selection of a provider who has great performance reviews,its not always the looks etc that count.
Have fun!!!.

We don't care. I have clients who need XXL Magnum sized condoms and I have some who can barely keep the xxs condoms on. While it's preferred to get a gentleman who is basically average, we don't discriminate on penis size. We know how sensitive some of the guys are who are on the smaller side and it's nothing to feel weird about.

What truly matters to a provider is whether you are a gentleman.


~Alyssa

I think I've gotten more offers to visit Greece and to deep throat than the more well endowed guys.

an example of "less is more"

It is always a pleasure to welcome a new contributor her.  The input of the ladies is always welcome on the newbie board!!!

jazz32

And thank you for allowing me to place my 2 pennies worth.I have a wonderful newbie,who hasnt played yet and we need to get her reviewed,but she will only play with me and a companion.Ideas welcome. Sally.. BTW she is 25yrs...so nervous, but wild like untamed horse.

Sorry to state the obvious, but providers are women who have their own tastes and preferences.  Being professionals, they don't have the leeway to deal with clients like they do civvies.  In real life, they might not give you a second look, but in hobby life, they should treat you well.

No service professional likes everyone they deal with, but they have to act like they do.  That's not to say that a provider won't genuinely have a great time with you, just treat them well, don't anguish over your size and you should do fine.

Besides, it's been debated on the boards whether women get off more on oral or penetration, and I remember the majority opinion being oral.

...the size of your wallet.  If you want to make a good impression book a longer appointment and leave a tip if you appreciate the service.  This way you will be remembered in a favorable way.  

Also, try to not put so much pressure on yourself.  This is not about your performance its about having a positive sexual experience with a beautiful provider.  Place your focus on enjoying yourself and you'll both be much more likely to have a good time.

I enjoy my work, but my main concern is to make him happy.  So, no, penis size doesn't matter.

It seems that too small is less of a problem than too large.  Still, it seems odd to me that someone in the business would be as size sensitive as this lady appears to be.  Maybe the guy worded it funny; who knows?

maybe she said it to make him feel better about himself...I'd be a bit apprehensive hearing such a comment...

Based on her "6 inch or smaller" rule of ... um, thumb ... I should be able to sneak in a couple rounds for the cost of 1

Being small has its privileges.

I'm petite. If you're very large, chances are you won't be able to get a second appointment with me. It's just not pleasant.

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Just curious why it seems odd?

Because if an average sized penis would present a problem, I'd think there'd be a lot of bad days at work.  I've had jobs before that I didn't like, and don't wish that on anyone.

I understand that a lot of ladies are in the business because it pays well, but I prefer the ones that LOVE sex, and all kinds of crazy variations.

It is true if you are told you are too big greek isnt offered unless they love the act and they tend to not take as much in on the bj but I figuire most regualr chicks arent going to do 99% of what a good provider does so its all good. Some providers get it and know exactly the suction to use with a bj and how to move,and its like getting in a Ferrari after driving a Honda for a year;they give you the closeness of a girlfriend but with the skills of a porn star and hit all the right notes. If the kissing and cuddling and tongue in ear arent there then the odds are she isnt top shelf and wont be getting returns.

I also don't like them really big. It's painful and doesn't make for a nice experience on my part.

Small to average size is better for me because we can go on for quite some time without me becoming sore.