I was wondering what the consensus was when requesting certain activities from providers. Maybe this is a silly question, but how is the best way to ask for a certain outfit or dress style or something like greek when first contacting a provider. Is it best to ask straight away? Or wait until the meeting is booked then insinuate what you might want? I'm genuinely curious as to how providers prefer it.

For example, I would love to ask providers to wear something specific and to keep it on for most of the session, however I don't know the polite/proper way to ask.

What do you guys typically do? What would you providers out there prefer?

"hi! here is all of my screening info.. after its checked, let me know if we can plan the date."

"hey! thanks for making that so easy! everything looks good, we are good to go!"

"great! quick question.. I'm totally in to dress up! do you have a little red riding hood outfit? also, I'm wondering if i can ask about a certain bcd activity?"

"oh man, that sound like fun! i dont dress up, but if you would prefer for me to show up in a certain outfit, feel free to let me know! I'm a total gnd so i dont really do the fuck me heels and garter belts, as sexy as they are... but i can strut in yoga pants or frolic in a summer dress like no other! as for the other question.. i have pages of reviews. feel free to do a search to see if any of this pop up or pm a recent reviewer"

"ok, cool. got it! how about a sun dress?"

"that works perfect! I'm a total gnd and i love sun dresses! when would you like to meet?

Thanks, exactly what I was looking for.

do not ask about any sexual questions until you are BCD with her.  That will get you very quickly ignored.

LLAP,
Swim

You no longer a moderator?

self-moderate.  They renamed me 'host'.  Don't know why my name isn't red anymore, have to ask admin.

LLAP,
Swim

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