I made it through the first phone call and I have my first time scheduled. 2 hours. Now I'm wondering about two things:

1. She said her favorite drinks are tea and Grey Goose. So my thinking is that I will offer her a Grey Goose, but how to do it? Bring the unopened bottle or have room service deliver it already mixed up?

2. What do providers expect in outcall hotels. Where do you draw the line on which ones are not appropriate?

Thanks!

1. If a lady has indicated her favorite drinks on her website, that does not automatically mean she will drink it during the meeting (especially the first one).  Personally, I had not served a drink to any lady -- I got rejected a couple of times in the early years.  If she personally told you about her favorite drinks, that's different.

2. From what I know, being courteous, respectful is most important.  She expects this as a business, and expects you as a matured client, so respect that.  Example: do not negotiate rate.  And, feel free to ask anything about the sex part.  There is no line about asking this.  Again, be courteous when ask, "may I fuck you from behind? Do you allow greek (anal sex)?"

Many ladies will not consume anything from an open container...  at least not until you devolupe a lot of trust.  
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...offer a lady a drink that does not come in an upopened container. Or food for that matter. My god my I get chills thinking what it could be spiked with!!!!  

I had a gent once bring me a gift of a 64oz bottle of juice. First that is odd in itself. Second though, it was half empty!!  Ummmm huh??  LOL, yeah, you know where that ended up. Down the sink!  

Have a great time on your date!!!  Good that you're asking questions so as not to make a terrible faux paus!!!!!

I did not ask it correctly. I was talking about the hotel room itself.

as a beverage.  Bring whatever she requests in an UNOPENED container.  From my nearly 6 years of experience, most ladies will either drink water or a soft drink on the first date.

Hotel is linked to provider's safety -- they appreciate nicer hotels.  If it's crappy motels, she may not show up.

When I am on business, I usually stay at 3-4 star hotels, I never got any "no-shows".  At home, I usually don't need out calls.

Thanks to all of you. This is great to be able to tap into your experience.

1. Grey Goose is my absolute favorite I would get the half pint and bring it in a cute little bag...unopened of course.

2. If I were you I'd only visit hotels that aren't run down and sleazy....read her reviews to see what kind of hotels she stays in, and you'll get a better picture....

unlike incalls, I'd expect the gent to have showered already.  If you want to be nice, you can cover the parking expense for the lady and that is very much appreciated.

Get the nicest room you can afford and stay away from motels.  I use Priceline for my out calls ( a tip I got from my ATF) and have no problem finding great three star rooms for about the same price as a Motel chain room would go for. Of course you don't have to tell the lady that you used price line... but my ATF and I kinda joke back and forth about how little we get rooms for!

Never serve anything in an opened container and, as others have said, don't assume the lady will drink with you on a first date, especially not liquor and especially not on an out call.  Have a few bottles of unopened bottled water on ice.

To some extent it's a bit of a guess but I generally start at $40 for a three star hotel if it is a weekday.  Weekends will generally cost you more. If I get turned down I go to fifty bucks. I rarely end up paying more than that. You can also check Hotwire.com and see what properties in a certain area are going for vs. the hotels regular rate.  If the prices are low this means there are a lot of rooms available in a given area and you can bid accordingly on Priceline.  I have also found the "extended stay" type places to be the lowest priced but some of those properties are not all that great.