I stated something important in an earlier post, yet I am afraid I have to reiterate again on the subject:

Please, gentlemen, LE is very prevalent here in Phoenix right now. I've asked some of you not to email me stating anything about escorting, hobbying, etc. I love to give advice but my emails are becoming overwhelming and I truly do not have time to chit chat.

In fact, I'm not the normal woman:

1) I do not like talking on the phone for hours;

2) I do not like typing back and forth for hours (I am way too busy for it);

3) Once I have given some "good advice" then please do not keep asking me about it. I've given you my advice. Either take it or don't take it.

I feel bad that I even have to post this on the boards because I do like to give helpful advice, but my friendly advice might get me into trouble through emails. Please, to those of you who are emailing me these things, don't take it personally. I have had to mention -- many times -- not to write to me about what's said on the boards. That is why there are boards. Reply to my responses on the boards. It doesn't have to be a big secret.

Please do not email me at my personal email address to talk about escorting, etc. I have allowed a few gentlemen to ask me for my advice on a particular relationship problem, but now I'm getting emails from them four or five times a day. I do not want those emails sitting in my system for LE to read, and sometimes it is hard for me to correspond with someone as much as he would like me to do with him. And, once I have given -- hopefully -- some good advice, then please do not think it's an opportunity to chit chat with me several times a day. That's what appointments are for, okay?

I must get at least 150 emails a day, and I hate to chat. That is why I am not on a chatting site and have had only one blog in seven years.

For those of you whom I occasionally email as friends, this does not apply to you. However, the type of conversation we may have has to be constrained about the hobby, okay? I wish men would understand this without thinking I'm being rude. IT'S A BUSINESS. Yes, there are a few who have become my friends, but they don't even email me every day.

I have also had to post about jokes and attachments. I don't want them. I don't have time to keep deleting things I don't have time to read. I have done stand-up comedy and love it, but I don't need the extra jokes cluttering up my system, and I am not depressed and in need of jokes or those "friend prayers" that are supposed to be sent to at least nine other people or "you'll have bad luck." Oy, vey!

Have a great day, everyone, and hobby on!

Hugs,
Ciara




-- Modified on 1/11/2009 9:34:05 AM

Do not be a time waster for Ciara or any other lady by sending unnecessary e-mails or PM's.  If you want to inquire about setting an appointment, then follow the instructions on the lady's web site.  If the web site directs you to her "form" to complete, then do it.  If it says call her assistant, then call.  Whatever, don't waste these wonderful ladies' time with jokes of the day and other internet BS.