So far, I've only done incall.

Next week will be the first time the provider has come to my place.

Should I employ the same two-call system that the providers use when they direct me to their place?

Most guys just give me their address.  They also include directions.  It all comes down to their reviews and how comfortable you feel giving ot your address.  I will say though that directions help; alot!

Only if you plan on seeing another provider right before and don't want them to pass each other on your front walk....

Im an outcall provider. I would never drive to someones house with out a specific address. I dont know any provider that would risk that.

she needs to verify that that you are giving her a real address and that address is yours and not sending her to a dirt lot or the neighbors.

just give her your addy when you book the appointment, if youre afraid to do that then maybe incall is a better option for you

Jenny

I was going to give her the name of the hotel, and when she got there, I'd give her my room number.  But what I'm hearing is that I should go ahead and give her all of the information from the start.

I think you are missing the point of the two call system. Providers are the ones with safety and security concerns and that is why the system is in place. It prevents strangers from showing up unannounced. This is not an issue for the customer...at least it shouldn't be!

Thanks.  I hear you loud and clear now.  I figured that the provider's safety was part of the equation, but I also thought that there might be an LE angle too.

Letting her know the room number ahead of time can make for a more discreet arrival.

Something else to think about - many hotels require a room keycard to use the elevators these days.  If this is the case, you may want to meet her in the hotel lounge, or the bar around the corner.

Holly, giving directions is only common courtesy.  I usually tell the lady to take a "right" after getting off the elevator and my room (#832) is about halfway down the hall on the right.  Knock and I'll greet you with a friendly hello and a nice hug.  One of these days...