Newbie - FAQ

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Do you know any other established Providers personally? Are you willing to do a duo session? ("Duo" means two F, one M; sometimes also called "threesome" = FMF.)  If she is willing to get a regular to agree to a FMF with a newbie (you), probably at some sort of discount ("She's an unknown. How am I supposed to know what to expect?"), that could help to establish your credibility. Even a duo review can convey whether you are a timid mouse who spent an hour hiding under the bed or were comfortable and provided a good time.  
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One thing about duos: some are very bi with lots of F-F interaction. If that's not your thing, don't worry. MOST are probably just tag team events with back and forth MF MF' MF MF' except for the obligatory double BBBJ.  
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Think of it as a Double Flute Concerto in D (for dick).

Posted By: AlexandriaB
I'm a new provider and I wanted to know how do hobbyists feel about seeing a new provider?

Hello all,

I'm a new provider and I wanted to know how do hobbyists feel about seeing a new provider?

best have great pics and rates so if the performance isnt great at least you havent spent a ton

IF she is booked solid (whatever volume that is for HER), then her rates are too low.  If she's not getting business, then her rates may be too high.  The trick is to find that sweet spot in between where she has more busy days than slow days, so I agree she should start conservatively and then tinker with rates as she sees the results come in.  Many girls that consider this profession never get out of the starting gate because they mistakenly think they can start at the same rates as the established veterans who have tons of positive reviews to their names.  

 
Great professional pics are also a must.  Selfies do little to stir sexual fantasy, at least for me.  

But new as in really FOB or new as in no reviews and was hiding UTR...If her communication seem authentic and real then I'm in. Bottom line, if she all that was mentioned and has the look that I like and is priced right, I'm usually good.

New as in no reviews on TER. I've just started in this business and I've had a few clients. Most of my clients have booked me every week since our first experience but none have TER to leave me any reviews.

Things have to check out. What I mean by that is, I like to check out the ladies website and make sure that it looks and reads like a professional created/approved it. I check to see if website rates and ad rates are the same. I completely understand if you are running intro rate speacials and that they are lower than normal rates. I also google the phone number and search it on Facebook. If either of these searches turn up a providers real name, I would not see them. Discretion is a very important part of the hobby. If I can't trust you to be discrete with your own information, how can I trust you with mine? Being new is not bad. We were all new at one point. Being new, unprofessional and reckless is a formula for disaster. Hope this helps.

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Since you have no reviews, yet, I suggest  that you link your site to include rates, photos, services(menu)  location (city/state) and other info about yourself etc.....here and when you post on your local board

and contact information.

That might help get things going.

 
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and each time it was because I got intrigued with them from their posts on TER, which led to us having an off-line chat using the PM system, which led to our eventual canoodling    

So, chat it up on your local board and let everyone know how awesome you are.

Do you know any other established Providers personally? Are you willing to do a duo session? ("Duo" means two F, one M; sometimes also called "threesome" = FMF.)  If she is willing to get a regular to agree to a FMF with a newbie (you), probably at some sort of discount ("She's an unknown. How am I supposed to know what to expect?"), that could help to establish your credibility. Even a duo review can convey whether you are a timid mouse who spent an hour hiding under the bed or were comfortable and provided a good time.  
.
One thing about duos: some are very bi with lots of F-F interaction. If that's not your thing, don't worry. MOST are probably just tag team events with back and forth MF MF' MF MF' except for the obligatory double BBBJ.  
.
Think of it as a Double Flute Concerto in D (for dick).

Posted By: AlexandriaB
I'm a new provider and I wanted to know how do hobbyists feel about seeing a new provider?

Libertine_Proust191 reads

An absolutely new provider w/o reviews. I yield to others to TOFTT.  

For seasoned providers, I'm more open to seeing them, but really prefer focusing on only a few providers that I can develop great chemistry with over time, which usually makes subsequent sessions much more satisfying/ rewarding.

they either caught my eye by creative posts, a very good and complete website, or a recommendation from a known provider. In each case the rate was competitive so I was willing to take the chance. I have seen each of these ladies multiple times since.

... in other ways ;)

I like new providers. They are not jaded about the industry (yet) and once they get past the nerves they seem to enjoy themselves.

My addition would be to be an active participant in your local board (or as close as you can get). It's a way to get your name out there, build your presence and you can post a photo on the local ad board. Buena suerte!

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