How do you interpret this? Is it reasonable compensation for the extra preparation time before your meeting and the extra clean up time afterwards? Or is it a way to discourage clients from asking for it while keeping it on the menu(and the provider therefore eligible for higher ratings)?
The reason I ask is that although I enjoy that activity, I don't want to do it if the lady isn't really into it. That may be a strange attitude for a hobbiest, but it is how I feel. I have seen a couple providers who really enjoyed greek and included it in the regular donation (one even asked for it herself).
An extra charge is not a good indication of
whether a provider is into it.
extra preparation time and lets not forget instruction classes.. I USED to offer it, until I didnt have the time to teach men how to do it the correct way.. you wouldn't believe how many do not..
I have found that those who are really into it don't charge extra for it. I too have had those who ask for it and really get off on it. They have never asked for more money. I will say that I have paid extra to many who were happy to do it and provide it but they didn't get off on it like the non-extra chargers. Overall, if its on the menu,(whether included or extra) then they don't mind it because no one does Greek who hates it-too much prep & instruction for not a whole lot more $.
Don't do greek to a provider who charges extra for greek. It is not worth it. Sometimes, and I say sometimes you will see that a*shole gap open after doing doggie for a while. That could be an indication that she could be ready for greek. In general let the provider offer it. A smart provider will only offer it to repeat clients. The provider has to be comfortable with you so that anus opens up.
charge extra to keep countless men from abusing it.
But then I think they must hate it.
Then I think they just want more money for the forbidden fruit and I scold myself for being a cynical bastard.
Then I think sex is supposed to be this lovely spontanious thing and pre-planning events isn't as sexy as...say...just letting things unfold.
So I stick with ladies that have all inclusive rates to stop me thinking so much.
Thanks for the answers, guys. And Proffesor Ciara, I would have loved to take your class. Sorry its no longer offered.
I don't get the instruction thing. I've only done that once and it was with a provider and things seemed to go smoothly for us. How do so many men mess up on it?
Yes, please explain what most do wrong. I am a novice at it and have not had a problem. I have only done it with 2 ladies. One asked that I let her start and set the pace until she was comfortable. The other just spit lubed and pretty much said go for it. Both I had seen bebore and both I have great experiences with in all aspects of our visits. Fill me in on the "wrong things" to do. I would like to try with others, but some might not be as comfortable as these two. I want it to be a good experience for both. I too do not want to run some lady off with bad technique. I find some ladies I know have said they do not do it, but later said, it is possible to one day, maybe give it a try. I am sure if I go about it wrong, the try will be all it is.
Thanks,
Doby
I won't go into the details, but you want the provider to prepare for the session (clean herself up, if you get what I mean). The value of prep time also depends on how busy she is. If she sees 10 guys a day, then the prep time is spread over multiple guys. If she sees only two guys a day, then ... I personally prefer providers who limit the # of guys in one day.
If she is good, and she isn't into it, then she wouldn't offer it. Whether she is good in general is an entirely different question.