The post with older hobbyist with younger providers was an interesting read. Also, I've noticed that alot of the 20-something providers have an over 30 age requirement. I understand that every provider has the right to choose who they want to see. Can you share some insights on the over 30 decision? Thanks.
As an older gentleman who hasn't seen 30 for some time, I think it may be alot of different reasons for many ladies. The ones that I have had the privelage of meeting say the following:
1. Dependable and on time and cancellations are fewer
2. One pop guys (usually)
3. More confident self assured and more successful
4. Apt to become a regular
5. Less drama and not tied to emotions as much
6. RESPECTFUL AND A GENTLEMAN at all times
if you have to ask, you just won't get it.
True they are better in bed!
Less likely to want to just pound my pussy for 60minutes cause they think thats what its all about. Geesh... Younger Gentlemen with few experiences, relationship wise, tend to take their cues from the numerous porn films they have watched and being a GFE Companion, truely thats not real life. We all improve with age practice and lifes experiences, sex included. A gentle touch by a man can be so sensual and so erotic its all in timing...these things seem to for the most part come in time and I am afraid with age as well.
Passion Intimacy and Sensuality are strong aspects of men who have been in a long term relationship. Most men over 40 have been. The connection is better.
Since I am 46 I am not attracted to men under 40, and for me thats important. Yes it is my job but I like what I do so I want to have an enjoyable time as well.
I have absolutely nothing in common with a man under 40, and lose interest in them.
It is for me at least a very Passionate Sensual tryst and an older more experienced Gentleman, just knows this. They get it...and I find that
very attractive.
Plus I also find the laugh lines on their faces, that touch of grey , and their less than perfect a bit aged look very comforting and deeply Attractive. There is Passion in their eyes, Sensuality in their touch, they see ME who I am and its more than a Sexual turn on...its a Passionate Tryst. A slow and mutually soothing Intimate dance...
I hope that helps.
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a fantastic woman who knows her business well. But, I already knew that. Well said my dear.
they kinda get it but not really, only to see the color red can you realize all the shades of red there are. Fire red, soft red, blood red, candy apple red, and then theres pink and all its shades. Just too complex to name them all right! Only to see it can you know what red is and all the shades that make it up.
just thought of this so figured I'd share it is all...
Soooo funny..I.m just reading this thread and phone rings, young man on other end is asking if it's ok that he is only 23? Ha! Anyway, I do agree with the flakeyness issue of younger people sometimes..however.as long as he passes my screening I'm willing to teach..yummy!
and thats with a man who already knows his own tricks. Less like work this way.
Besides I do not want to see anyone younger or the same age as my own kids. Too creepy for me.
each to their own I say!
Dear Nicole:
I was just wondering since the session is the total experience would you also say that there is more stimulating conversation with you clients and you also get to discuss a variety of issues? This would be a point that you would want to discuss because more time within the session is spent doing this than actually being libidinal.
thats very true, but thats the whole package, I guess I just assumed that went without saying, so didnot bring that up.
I have no issues or experiences in common with a man in his early 30s but a gentleman in his 40s and 50s I really enjoy their company. We have like life experiences, and they are more polished in general. I really love it when I meet a man who is in this age group, I have to say its a true and complete pleasure to spend time with them. Its relaxing, we laugh, enjoy each others company as people,truely drink in the whole experience.I have forged many great friendships here in this hobby with this such Gentleman. When they call for an appt its so fun, and they are so easy to be with, it truely is for me like dating. I can't wait to see them again...