Newbie - FAQ
I'm booking my first longer (5hour) appointment with a provider including dinner. If we're meeting at the restaurant, is it normal to greet with a kiss? I booked a more secluded table, so I'm also wondering if it's okay to ask her to flirt a little under the table (not an outright bbbj in the restaurant of course). Maybe a little subtle FIV as well. She has only a few reviews so far so hard to say if she's done any of that before.
I'm also wondering whether to keep the conversation at the restaurant completely normal (like a date) or if we can even just talk about naughtier things.
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Flirty talk and kisses yes! Fingering her under the table *could* make things go south really fast. If it's a lady you've spent time with before and is comfortable with you then broach the subject beforehand. If you've never met her before. Being respectful in public can lead to lots of passion later BCDs. 
We greeted each other in the bar with a light hug, the way friends, or even colleagues at more laid-back companies, greet. Our actions at the bar were more affectionate than sexual: holding hands, me playing with her hair, and us touching each other's thighs. And we talked too quietly for other people to hear us. The best part was seeing the jealous, disbelieving looks on 50-something businessmen in suits sitting at the bar near me and my "date". I was 25 at the time, wearing slacks and a polo shirt; Veronica was in mid 30's, wearing the women's equivalent. So, a 20-something working-class IT guy really stuck it to rich businessmen twice his age! 