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What do you do for two hours?
NuGeye 1892 reads
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What happens in a two hour session?

Let's assume a two hour session costs twice as much as a one hour session. For sake of argument, we're talking about 500 an hour, 1000 for two.

So, for 1000 a hobbyist can spend an hour with a 1000 an hour provider or two with a 500 an hour provider.

What I want to know is, what do you do with someone for two hours who isn't your girlfriend or wife?

I'm not trying to be a jerk, but the actual physical act of sex can't last two hours, can it? I mean, I can job for an hour, but there is no way I can have sex for two hours without stopping.

So, what do you do when you're resting? Talk? Eat? Watch TV?

See, I can sort of see what a four hour date is like, regardless of price. For four hours, you're paying for time and you go out for a meal and maybe a drink, maybe you even have time for a dance. But two hours isn't time for a real date. Two hours is just twice as long in the room.

To each his own, really, I'm not judging. I'm just wondering what people do for two hours.

I guess if I had 1000 bucks I'd go for one 1000 per hour provider or heck, live out a fantasy and go for two 500 dollar an hour providers at the same time.

I'm just not sure what I'd do for two hours with one person.

In my experience, I would not book a two hour appointment with a provider unless I had met her before and knew I would be comfortable.  You see, unlike Mr. Phallus, getting multiple pops in a session, whether it is one hour or two, would be a major achievement for me.

I do prefer to book 1 1/2 or 2 hour appointments with the ladies I repeat with.  Gives us time to enjoy some wine, enjoy some conversation, enjoy some sexual build-up, and really enjoy some major foreplay.

To each his/her own though.

I'll let you know next week. I have my 1st 2 hour date booked for this cumming Friday.

As Fuzzy said many guys who book two hours do it for the purpose of achieving multiple pops.

Frankly I'm only good for one pop in a two hour time frame but I do book two hours almost all the time.  The main reason for me is that I like to relax and take my time.  Seeing a provider is what I do for fun.  I don't like having to start looking at the clock as I'm licking or she's sucking and start worrying about having the time to do everything I want.  If I see a lady more than once it means we have a connection of some sort and I want time to chat, laugh a little and relax.  Everyone has a different idea of what an appointment with a lady should be but for me it is about much more than the finish.

Honestly, if none of this interests you then I would say just stick with an hour.

T

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is because I'm too lazy to get my sorry butt out of bed after a session. I hate looking at the clock and thinking, "shit, I've got to get on my clothes and get out of here"

I think it's totally matter of personal preference. If it's an energetic provider that I'm totally into, we do start out by having sex for about sixty minutes. You can't do that in an hour session. Then we usually chat for 20 or 30 and I have a second round.

You're totally correct: it would probably be abusive to have sex with a provider for a solid two hours. Most need time to recharge, as of course do guys. Not that it would be impossible to have sex for two hours. It just wouldn't be very fun.

I do like to bring or have available some food for the break. My AFT likes pineapple. A recent provider broke out some apples during a break and I could have kissed her. (Well, I did.) I also like snacking on chocolate, danish, grapes and ripe plums.  To me, lying in bed and eating grapes while a beautiful naked young women nuzzles your leg is pretty wonderful. I'd pay good money for that. (What are you going to remember when you're 90? Coming into some woman's cunt from doggie position or the perfect feeling of her skin and smell of her hair as she lay in your arms?)

I wouldn't pay a provider to go out dancing and to dinner. I want to roll in the hay. But you are correct that guys look for very different things in a date with a provider. Some pay for overnights and have little if any sex at all. Some want to go out for a drink or dinner.

Recently I've booked several three hour sessions because I'm focusing on providers I really like, and two hours is not enough. I'll let you know how these go if I live to tell the tale.


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I now usually go for multiple hour sessions.  One reason seems to be that those I did one-hours with just seem to rush through it.  I don't know what it is, but the one-hour sessions I've had rarely got to 30 minutes and I feel rushed through.

The multiple hour sessions may or may not include multiple pops, but there is much more conversation involved, which I enjoy.  The fun part is also a bit more relaxed.  We might also go to a restaurant for a quick meal, or have a few drinks at the hotel bar.

Then there are those I've enjoyed where the sex really does last 2+ hours (here, once you pay for 2 hours, going to 2.5 or even 3 hours doesn't seem to bother the provider, and they explicitly say so, "don't worry about the time."  (Providers, is that a hint that I should pay more to stay longer or is that suggesting that time is not an issue?...sounds rather vague now that I think about it.)

And during those two hours, we're doing everything under the sun.  Sometimes it may involve multiple pops, sometimes it's just once at the end or maybe once in the middle.

I've had several providers go one hour, then look in the envelope and realize I paid for 2 and come back and work me over for another.  I don't mind...

then maybe you should stick to an hour. All previous posts offer good advice. My ATF was over my home last night. She stayed for 5 hours. Here's how it went, talk for awhile,  make dinner and dine,  bcd for some fun, including massages for both of us, and finally into the shower to clean up. If you have a vip membership look for the acronym MSOG (multiple shots on goal= multi pops)also some reviewers will mention the phrase "not a clock watcher"  BTW all my first dates are one booked for an hour, I used to be a one and run  type of guy, then I met my ATF.  Make sure to do your research, there's nothing worse than being rushed by a provider, but it does happen from time to time when you think an hour will do and the lady is nice enough to extend her time. That is also the time it's appropriate to tip her $, if she doesn't ask for an extra $, or offer to pay her for an extra hour. Being generous and respectful will be most helpful when and if you ask the lady for a reference down the road. Having a good reputation with the ladies is very important in this hobby.   Good luck.

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Initial smooching, disrobing, and clean up - 5 minutes
Welcome blow job – 5 minutes
DATY - 15 minutes
69 - 10 minutes
(at this point you can take the CIM option, assuming you don't)
Don condom and start with CG – 5 minutes
Switch to Mish - 10 minutes
Switch to standing doggie - 15 minutes
remove condom and proceed with BBBTC – 5 minutes
rest and refuel - 15 minutes
BBBJ - 10 minutes
69 - 10 minutes
reverse CG to come or handjob tc on breasts- 10 minutes
Quickly shower and say good bye - 5 minutes

As you can see, the schedule is pretty tight.

talking, cuddling, massaging (both as massager and massagee), noshing, napping and once, even dancing.

For me, usually it's some getting-to-know-you or catching up conversation first, often with a glass of wine or a cold beer. Then we do what comes naturally to two adults who find each other attractive, followed by a breather. Then either more conversation if we're spent or more vigorous activity if we ate our Wheaties that morning. ;) Two hour dates are great for adding in slow massages, too.

Really, it's whatever comes naturally. I love two hour dates (and not just because I'm a sucker for good wine). They're much more relaxed than shorter visits and are more affordable for most people than a dinner date.

I've had a couple of dinner dates that were two hours -- an hour or so at the restaurant, then back to the hotel/home for dessert. I don't recommend this, because it ends up feeling quite rushed. Unless the restaurant is at the base of the hotel, three hours is best if you want to go out.

maybe a lovely pair of asian ladies..... or......well.... as long as they are bi - it's gonna be a hot time....

To me if I have two beautiful women in the room with me, I want them both focusing on me, not on each other.  

I have had a few threesomes, and the best ones where the two women focused on me, and my pleasure (while I focused on each of them also).   The ones where the women were much too much into each other was rather disappointing since I was almost a observer instead of a participant.  I got the same experience as if I had rented a video tape.   When I tried to "join in", I felt like the "third wheel".

But I have never really understood watching two women going at it anyways.   It has never really turned me on.  Now two women pleasing me, that is a different story!

for a male to be turned on by watching two females get it on.

What they are saying, in effect, is that we don't need you; we have each other.

Yet, like many men, I get incredibly turned on by watching lesbian sex.

I'm not sure, but I think the underlying hope is that the two gals will get so enthralled, that they will begin to roll around and end up bumping into us.

That's not much to go on I agree, but what else is there to explain this phenonmenon?

If you don't get that concept, you are better off finding a 15 min session.

I once had a 90-minute date (I usually do 1- hour dates), and it was really nice.  I met the provider in the hotel bar, to talk and have a few drinks, for 20 to 30 minutes.  As I sat with her at the bar, all men sitting within the line of sight were giving me jealous looks.  So while the main goal is to enjoy a good conversation and have a strong drink with a hot woman (I had a stressful day at work), the jealous looks were a nice ego-booster.

So if two hours is too long for an in-room date, and too short for a lunch/dinner date, go to the hotel bar.  It fits the time frame, and you'll get the same benefits I got.

who have caught your eye that offer 2-hr. sessions.  

I too started with all 1-hr. dates and have since expanded to almost exclusively doing 90-minute or 2-hr. dates.

I usuually do 1 hour dates, but on 1 occasion I did a 4 hour date with a delightful lady that I had seen before, and I don't think we got out of bed during the date. It was a delicious and wonderful experience that I will never forget, with lots of sex, kissing, cuddling, and just holding this beautiful young woman in my arms for what seemed like an eternity.

My usual appointment time is 3 hours, and somehow either me or my guest always ends up running out the door at the last minute!

Honest advice though. If you can't imagine what you'd do in two hours, stick to one hour sessions. Then, when you're sick of going home and drooling over fantasies of the stuff you didn't get to, that's the time to up the ante and go for longer sessions :)

Maxine

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