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iamsd5 4 Reviews 5949 reads
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I am a newbie and I have been doing some research into who my first "date" will be with. All I can say is GET THE VIP!  I almost picked the wrong SP to start with. You thought it was bad in high school, going to a flop your first time may be too much.  I found the SP with good ratings and descriptions I find appealling.
For me, it has been exxillaring and terrifying at the same time.  20+ with the same woman, I'm not sure if I remember to act around a woman that I am interested in.  From reading all the informative posts, I think my old fashioned values of treating a lady like a lady are still in high demand.  So, I shouldn't have an issue there. But can I be charming, amd how charming should I be? Also, I am concerned about my performance, being out of practice, I might explode before I get my name out :(  I feel I need to make a connection - even if it is a mutual respect thing - to act.

Another thing I can't seem to shake is, I am a large man - pot belly pig with manners :) - and the woman I prefer to be trim.  Seriously, about 270 and losing.  I am uncomfortable with my looks at times. Call me an idiot, but will she go running out of the room screaming.  Caause if that could happen, I'll just stay at home LOL. As the posts here state, the SP is a person, complete with feelings and desires.  I know my hour is supposed to be about me, but if she has to mentally check out, will it effect the experience?

Anybody out there can help eleviate my pre-"date" jitters, your counsel will be truely appreciated.  Forgive this 40 year, I am feeling like a teenager again...

foo6375 reads

I'm of a similar physique as you.  The only providers who seem to have reacted negatively to my large, balding, geeky and should-wear-a-paper-bag-on-head appearance are the younger ones (18-ish).  I now stick to 25+ and always have a wonderful time.  Just be sure you've showered as close as possible to your appointment, and scrub every nook and cranny well.

How charming:  Just be yourself.  Be polite and nice, but most importantly be natural so that you're comforatble.  If you're trying really hard to woo her, you won't have a good a time.

Performance anxiety:  Good providers will offer multiple chances for you to 'explode', so if the first one is when you walk in the door, she'll help you with the next one once you've had some time to recover.

Mentally checks-out: Well, that's where the term YMMV comes in.  Yes, sometimes you just won't 'click' with her, and she lets it show in a lackluster performance.  All you can really do is move on to another provider and see if you 'click' there...or appear to click, as the really good providers can make anyone feel like a king.

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Misty_Bay3767 reads

. . . I must reassure you that as long as you choose a well-reviewed woman with recent reviews, you will probably have a wonderful time and SHE will be there to put you at ease.

I LOVE charm, just like most women.  Be yourself, don't worry about a thing, let her take the lead.

Most providers enjoy the many different body and personality types that we meet.  You're worrying needlessly.

Good luck.   :)

Related Link: Reassuring Misty Bay's Site

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iamsd53222 reads

Thanks for the quick responses.  I know I am probaly in the OTS mode. (Overthinking syndrome).  For me, this is a big step.  I just want my first "mission" to be pleasant. Or at least not a total failure.  My SP I picked does have many reviews, all positive and she is 23-28 age range.  Keep your fingers crosssed on Friday for me and hopefully my first review will great reading for you!  

Everyone on the board is very helpful :D

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little phil3021 reads

Sounds like you'll do fine.  Just be yourself, and be clean, and the rest will play out.  Oh, and report back to us...we'll be waiting.

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tbiscuit3342 reads

Well, tell us how it went!  I'm just starting with this and have many of the same thoughts you had in your first post in this thread.  

-t

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iamsd54364 reads

tbiscuit,

All I can say if your a newbie like myself is get the VIP.  All you need to know about the escort is in her reviews.  I found a real gem for my first time.  I read thrugh the FAQ posts so I wouldn't say the wrong thing.  When I showed up, I told her I hadn't done anything like this before.  Just let her take charge, she helped ease my nervousness and treated me well.

During my "date", I just acted normal.  I treated her like I would anyone I would have dated.  Respect can take you a long way.

My review should be up in a day, whenever the admin releases. let me know what you think of it.

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iamsd52929 reads

Houston, here's the mission report: Well, I have completed the MISSION!  WOW. She was incredible and very unstanding of my "newbie" status.   Didn't go to all the planets that I wanted, but all in all ...  you'll have to read my review. ha ha. Thanks to everyone for the support.  I felt like I was 18 all over again.  Now to plan the next mission :D

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