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olsenjimmy 1300 reads
posted
1 / 16

I see in a bunch of reviews, at the end, the reviewer writes "treat her right guys"...

am i missing something?  is there something more than the obvious, treating her with respect?  do guys actually act like assholes to the ladies they visit with?

mrfisher 108 Reviews 388 reads
posted
2 / 16

I wish that TER would edit it out, it gets annoying to keep seeing it over and over.

Also, they should ditch the "run, don't walk..."  that so many reviews end with.

A simple:  "I will repeat" is sufficient.

-- Modified on 3/2/2017 3:50:03 PM

olsenjimmy 515 reads
posted
3 / 16

Ok cool, thanks. I didn't know if that meant tipping or some special sex act or who knows what..so many people say it.

TurbayVeronica See my TER Reviews 443 reads
posted
4 / 16

Posted By: olsenjimmy
I see in a bunch of reviews, at the end, the reviewer writes "treat her right guys"...  
   
 am i missing something?  is there something more than the obvious, treating her with respect?  do guys actually act like assholes to the ladies they visit with?

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 445 reads
posted
5 / 16

be nice to her. He liked her very much and wouldn't want a jerk to try to see her, basically.

Although I have never experienced it in person, yes gals have dealt with guys who were not nice.

It is just saying something that really doesn't need to be said as we "should" all know to treat each other nicely.  

It is not about tipping, bringing gifts, special act.... just being nice to her, that she deserves it.
Posted By: olsenjimmy
Ok cool, thanks. I didn't know if that meant tipping or some special sex act or who knows what..so many people say it.

lopaw 29 Reviews 327 reads
posted
6 / 16

... we hobbyists are guilty of it sometimes too.  
Don't read too much into anything written on this site. It's all fictitious anyway ;)

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 400 reads
posted
7 / 16

I'm not sure if using the line in the review (and I have used it myself) works well to suggest those looking for a different type of interaction take it as a "Must see so I can really fuck her and make her time miserable" or if they take it as a "Off the list, I'll just get BLed from the girl/agency, a bad rep on the provider board and so might have problems down the road".

I've typically used it when it's been clear she has had some "high maintenance" clients and largely in the hopes of it attracting more of the respectful clients to help her out. Probably doesn't...

I don't think I've put it in a review for a while and might just follow Fish's advice going forward.

LikeTearsInRain 451 reads
posted
8 / 16

I probably wrote that too.
I agree it's weird. As if we would say "treat her badly"

But I also agree that is basically to reinforce that jerks need not apply - ever - to any provider.

xyz23 45 Reviews 339 reads
posted
9 / 16
ROGM 287 reads
posted
10 / 16

Posted By: xyz23
She started it.
Crimes Of Passion. Great CD.

darmody 22 Reviews 384 reads
posted
11 / 16

At first I assumed it was because providers are always going in and out of the business. If you enjoy a particular lady, you hope she doesn't get jaded and retire before you're done with her. So you admonish fellow clients not to do anything that'll drive her away.  

Nowadays, just sounds like boilerplate review-ese. Like if it's hot outside, you say, "Hot enough for ya?" Nobody pays attention to or remembers; that's just something people say.

2648667 31 Reviews 380 reads
posted
12 / 16

Posted By: olsenjimmy

  do guys actually act like assholes to the ladies they visit with?
Yes, a lot of them really do. I've talked with a few providers about it and you'd probably be shocked at the behavior they put up with. Not that writing "treat her right" in a review will change anything.

It's also amazing how far just being a gentleman will get you. Not talking anything "above and beyond" or excessive tipping, but just basic human courtesy.

davincib1 84 Reviews 313 reads
posted
13 / 16

Just means don't be an asshole to her.  If you've been in this game long enough then you've more than likely ran into the jaded provider who 1) Seems to have a lot of "bad days."  2) The provider who always seems to have an attitude or GPS (Golden P**** Syndrome) or 3) Just a really negative attitude during the session.  Most certainly contributed to asshole clients.  All due to guys not "treating her right."  All in all it's just a request from good clients to idiots out there posing as clients don't ruin her attitude toward providing good service.

Note:  I'm not so sick of this term as I am reviewers writing "She asked me to put my cock in her ass and who am I to say no."  
Posted By: olsenjimmy
I see in a bunch of reviews, at the end, the reviewer writes "treat her right guys"...  
   
 am i missing something?  is there something more than the obvious, treating her with respect?  do guys actually act like assholes to the ladies they visit with?

triage 407 reads
posted
14 / 16

but the thing we're not talking about here is how this also implies that if a review doesn't say treat her right then that means we're free to mistreat her, which is an odd thing

DampkringDarling 378 reads
posted
15 / 16

...my first review was mediocre. The reviewer gave me 5s. He didn't sat anything bad, but nothing great. He claimed he felt there was no connection, and I wasn't into it. Well, he wasn't the nicest guy and had a bit of an attitude. Like he was doing me a favor by being there. Had he approached me more respectfully, and was more active during his session, of course his experience would've been better. Clearly, YMMV...which is why I believe my 2nd reviewer gave me a much better review, stating that if you "treat her right", she's great, etc..and every review since then has been great. It just makes the first one look like an asshole, who I clearly didn't like, based on how he treated me.

Posted By: olsenjimmy
I see in a bunch of reviews, at the end, the reviewer writes "treat her right guys"...  
   
 am i missing something?  is there something more than the obvious, treating her with respect?  do guys actually act like assholes to the ladies they visit with?

ANiceGuyToHookUp 104 Reviews 112 reads
posted
16 / 16

I don't know what it means.  I just try to treat people the way that I want to be treated.  And I always do my best to never make people feel uncomfortable -- and feel good about themselves.    

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