I've been reading TER for years - and now that I am divorced I am ready to take the plunge and start hobbying!   Problem is, I don't have any refs (obviously) but I am also 'between jobs' right now  Is there any way to break in or will I have to wait till my next employment?   Does anyone know if P411 has another method besides refs and employment to verify?

Call their 800 number and talk to them, they will work with you if you will work with them.

so it's surprising that you are asking this question as it is asked and answered every few weeks.

Just contact the verification service or provider and ask THEM what information they want to verify you. It's that simple.

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I say the best advice given so far is to just call Gina and ask.

BTW I haven't had a job in well over two decades and I never intend on having another one for the rest of my life. This hasn't slowed me down for even a minute where it comes to getting to see hookers.

...not everyone does.  

For the OP, call Gina at P411. She'll work with you. Welcome and have fun!

Thanks all!  Yep, P411 worked with me ... looks like I'll be a "go" in a few days!    After 20 years in a almost sexless marriage I'm gonna be enjoying next week !

You must be independently wealthy, gambler

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One way to accomplish this is to see newbie providers, communicate well with them but don't text/call/email excessively, don't cancel an appointment, don't try to haggle the price down, and if the session goes well write an accurate and nice review of the provider.  Join a verification site like P411 and politely ask her to give you an OK on P411.  After a few P411 OKs your opportunities will expand.  There are plenty of Newbie Providers, some will ask for some detailed verification info, some will not.  It might take a while to get established on P411, but the effort is well worth it.  Treat the providers with respect and they'll most likely give you an OK.  Also, when asking a provider on P411 politely ask the provider if she will give you an OK.  Personally, I stick with P411 providers and have had nothing but great experiences.  Some providers will White List hobbyists on TER which may also help you.  If you are a gentleman and treat the provider with respect you should have no problem getting established.

Good luck, have fun and safe hobbying.

Cheers

I am also new and have my eyes set on a lady who travels here often, especially this weekend! (Not sure Ill get verified in time or if I'll be available because of previous obligation, but, I'm curious to what is said when they call my place of employment for employment verification and vice versa.

When I got hired they gave us a contact number at corporate for employment verification and explained it was for when you were looking to buy a car or what not.