on a recommendation of a site review, i checked out a small asian massage parlor in TO n just took the first asian attendant there (young, viet/chinese)

things like condom were used, asked me if i was clean, no CIM, did DATY, straight sex, but now i didn't do a shower before n after

tell me if i did something stupid here n i'm taking a big risk here

THanks

I'm not a doctor but I would think that the risk  is almost non existent. The shin is the body's natural  defense against dieses.  Unless you have an open sore you probably won't have to worry IMO.

But if you are offered a shower where the towels are clean and soap bottled or packaged, take it. The shower helps if for nothing more than the scent of a woman will not be fresh on your skin for acquaintances or an SO to notice. Try carrying a small bottle of strong mouth wash with you on hobby visits, use it as soon as possible after DATY.

when you used the bathroom, did you use the ass gasket when you sat down?

If you did, you're ok

If you didn't, uh oh...that was a BIG RISK

RH

ok seems like nothing that's going to kill me


so what should i get tested for?

alrite, is there anything i should be concern about ? thanks so far

dude, that made me really laugh!

HA!

RH

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Buddy- when you touch anyone skin to skin there is always a risk.  Sounds like you won't be able to sleep well until you get tested.  So go get tested- keep and eye on your body for any new rashes or redness.  

My best guess- sounds like you were pretty safe.  Are you this freaked out when you are with a civi?  Read and think about the risks and assess if you are willing to put yourself through this again before you do it.  If you can’t handle it- there is always your hand…………..