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"Less in the bag?"
Jensen36363 58 Reviews 1161 reads
posted
1 / 13

The (current) last comment in the GFE thread below got me thinking about this. A number of my married friends/associates outside the hobby have elected to have their tube snipped rather than deal with additional children as their chosen birth control method.  

Started wondering that's typically a step taken only my the faithful or if some have done so that wonder now and then.

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 409 reads
posted
2 / 13

got the chop-job after my second child was born.  I can't help but wonder if your question isn't a veiled attempt to see if any providers will do BBFS since you can't impregnate them.

LLAP,
Swim

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 372 reads
posted
3 / 13

No, it's not and I'm not snipped so that would be a really bad move on my part for multiple reasons!

However, I could see some trying to make that argument, and that was one of the thought I was wondering if I'd hear mentioned by any of the providers.
 
Posted By: swimtrekr
got the chop-job after my second child was born.  I can't help but wonder if your question isn't a veiled attempt to see if any providers will do BBFS since you can't impregnate them.  
   
 LLAP,  
 Swim

Jess_CountryGirl See my TER Reviews 467 reads
posted
5 / 13

Any time a hobbyist mentions that he is snipped, I tend to feel that it's an attempt at getting BBFS. Unless we have somehow wound up in a conversation about available methods of birth control there is no other logical reason to mention it. Personally, I think it would be best just not to bring it up. It's not like we can look at your package and tell.

dirkdigler024 1 Reviews 335 reads
posted
6 / 13

Its been 30yrs since I've done bareback unless you count my hand.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 361 reads
posted
7 / 13

Posted By: Jensen36363
The (current) last comment in the GFE thread below got me thinking about this. A number of my married friends/associates outside the hobby have elected to have their tube snipped rather than deal with additional children as their chosen birth control method.    
   
 Started wondering that's typically a step taken only my the faithful or if some have done so that wonder now and then.

Lexiplexi See my TER Reviews 260 reads
posted
8 / 13

Snipped or not shouldn't really matter, at least it doesn't to me. Even if I wasn't in this business I would use protection regardless with the exception of marriage? It's not worth it to me as a provider and (not to be harsh to those that do allow BBFS) it shouldn't be worth it to you either. No disease is worth an hour of fun. I REALLY REALLY REALLY dislike receiving messages asking about anything really, but especially  BB

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 287 reads
posted
9 / 13

Since you seem to be saying you have had such clients I'm guessing not all of them have brought it up early in the session. What about after,you got to notice that there's really not much of anything in the bag, right?

Do you just not mention that and the guy not mention it, you simply never check (even if it feels a bit light) or does the subject come up then.

In any case my initial musing was about guys that go to the solution and if they tend to be more faithful or if it's not significant in terms of fidelity or not -- then again, I have not clue as to the % of married men snipped versus not or the number of married men who hobby.
Posted By: Jess_CountryGirl
Any time a hobbyist mentions that he is snipped, I tend to feel that it's an attempt at getting BBFS. Unless we have somehow wound up in a conversation about available methods of birth control there is no other logical reason to mention it. Personally, I think it would be best just not to bring it up. It's not like we can look at your package and tell.

juggles99 228 reads
posted
10 / 13

I'll take that advice and never mention it but I figured it would just be an extra bit of comfort for all involved parties to know... you know just in case.

Jess_CountryGirl See my TER Reviews 273 reads
posted
11 / 13

I really haven't had it come up in conversation after. Some guys naturally don't have as much in the bag as you put it. There are some even who finish without any external sign.  
In response to your initial musing, I would venture to guess that some may choose to get snipped in the interest of being more cautious in the hobby. . . Ha maybe a new TER poll is in order on this one.  

Posted By: Jensen36363
Since you seem to be saying you have had such clients I'm guessing not all of them have brought it up early in the session. What about after,you got to notice that there's really not much of anything in the bag, right?  
   
 Do you just not mention that and the guy not mention it, you simply never check (even if it feels a bit light) or does the subject come up then.  
   
 In any case my initial musing was about guys that go to the solution and if they tend to be more faithful or if it's not significant in terms of fidelity or not -- then again, I have not clue as to the % of married men snipped versus not or the number of married men who hobby.  
   
Posted By: Jess_CountryGirl
Any time a hobbyist mentions that he is snipped, I tend to feel that it's an attempt at getting BBFS. Unless we have somehow wound up in a conversation about available methods of birth control there is no other logical reason to mention it. Personally, I think it would be best just not to bring it up. It's not like we can look at your package and tell.

Jess_CountryGirl See my TER Reviews 197 reads
posted
12 / 13

If there were to be an oops such as a broken condom I can see where that would be comforting information to know. That might be one exception where it would be a good thing to mention. :)

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 222 reads
posted
13 / 13

A vasectomy prevents sperm from entering the semen. It does not reduce the amount of semen.  

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