Hi, im new to this message board, nice to meet you all.  Since im a newb, ive been doing some research and one of the "listed requirements" is to put the money inside a white envolope then you can hand it in? I mean whats the purpose behind that? and is it different for every provider? ty

The reason for it is so that if you are LE the provider can claim that she didn't know there was money in the envelope.  Every lady has her preference and it will usually be mentioned on her web site or ad. Some prefer sealed, some unsealed, some will ask you to write "gift" on the envelope, some will ask for no envelope at all.

One, the money is not out in the open, which creates a comfort factor with the providers vis a vis the whole "money changing hands" element of a criminal charge (false comfort, unfortunately, but comfort nonetheless);

Two, they want it that way.  Bottom line, if they want it wrapped in a leaf, placed inside a plastic bag, and sealed inside a tin cup, why not? It's one of those "little things" you're not supposed to worry about in life.

Good luck

Biggest No No is to discuss your gift. Just put it down as to how your provider desires it. Don't say as you put it there, "here's your contribution", as you might be left standing while she walks out the door. You are a newbie with no references so be very careful how you handle that.

Please join us on the newbie board the friendliest spot on TER for awhile and learn how to keep yourself safe and get the most satisfaction available for your money.

Kisses Haley

Agreed that we should keep envelope somewhere and never hand it over or discuss about it... this is good enough for the safety of GF.... does it also protect man if lady is undercover LE? If yes, please explain....

all will be fine.  I usually walk in and offer a friendly hug or hand and introduce myself.  Once inside I foolow her web sites instructions for the donation.  If none is present or the details lacking I will usually do the following:

I sit and make some small talk for a minute or three.  If I feel that all is well and there is not rob or upsell (this is rare as I do my research first).  I will stand up and ask to freshen up.  When I do so I place the envelope in plain view insuring that she sees me leaving it.

I excuse myself to the bathroom to freshen up.  This offers her some privacy to check the donation and put it away.  Now she can be more comfortable because she has what she wants from the arrangement.  Meanwhile I make sure I am clean and fresh everywhere so that I can be sure of getting what I want from the arrangement.

I return from freshening up in a robe, towel, my boxers or nothing at all depending on the vibe I get.

By now she is assured I am not LE and we progress from there.

I had sworn to never reveal this, but I'm feeling like a rebel tonight.

The provider places the envelope under her pillow and over night, the "Condom Fairy" takes the envelope and replaces it with a new condom.

That's how they get new condoms.

Think about it:  Have you even seen a provider actually buying condoms?

I hope I don't get black listed for telling secrets.

On second thought, I don't... that's a GUY!!!

Got it, i know what to do now, ty for the advices ppl

Since it is YOUR envelope it would be difficult to say that you didn't know what was in it. The reality is that a bust is a bust and the envelope doesn't really protect either party. If either of you is LE the other is going to the police station. A conviction is another story of course but the bust is what makes the headlines.  The easiest way to avoid trouble is for the lady to screen well and for the gentleman to do his research.

Leave a used condom under your pillow at night and in the morning you'll find a nic new envelope.

Try it and let us know.  

YEP ....I agree.


Thank You
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I've never used an envolupe... white envolupes get all scrunched up in a pant pocket.  I have donation in front pocket with a paper clip on it.  I usually drop it on the dresser while undressing, though, with my favorites, we take care of business after like in the old days.  I drop the donation while moving around the room  dressing, she'll scoop it totally inseen.  Helps with the illusion.  One fav likes a certain mint & I'll bring a pkg...  you guessed it, the donation is under the package on her table.
Any rate, having it ready, I know instantly when checking my keys.  
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That is Funny AS Hell!!! ROFLMAO!!!!