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curiouscricket 2668 reads
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An upcoming vacation is giving me the opportunity to see multiple providers in a very short period of time. I may try to see 7 providers in 5 days. Call it a "beginner's binge."

But how much is too much? What's your record for seeing multiple providers in a short period of time, say a weekend or week?

Hollys Hobby See my TER Reviews 1603 reads
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When you fall asleep during the date maybe you've had enough.

In the end, it's purely subjective and you have to decide what your limit is.

buckeye-kev 15 Reviews 1539 reads
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I'm relatively new to serious hobbying and not a young cricket, but I would not plan or try that much.  3 in 3 days and 4/7 is the most I've done.  

I'd be worried about a few things with that schedule.  One is being able to finish at least once per appt - if you are young or can go 2/day regularly than great for you but most mere mortals might have problems by the 5th or 6th in that short a period.  I like GFE girls who allow MSOG and if you try to get multi-pops you are talking 14 in 5 days.  If that is no problem then maybe you ought to audition for porn star!  

Another is enjoying the experience and getting your $'s worth.  They may all start blending together at that rate and that's a fair amount of $ not to savor the experiences.  BTW I've done 50+ appointments since the beginning of the year which is a lot compared to most - making up for lost time myself.  1/day and maybe 5 in a week is about as much as I'd ever consider personally.  But some of that is my age and endurance showing.  I'd just be worried it would start to feel like a chore or job to go that much.

JMHO

hornung 1505 reads
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curiouscricket 1644 reads
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Excellent advice buckeye, and greatly appreciated. I'm not that young myself and I'm probably just experiencing the headiness of a newbie to the hobby.

But I must say that one pop per appointment is not something that is absolutely necessary to me. Spending a memorable hour or 2 with a fantastically beautiful woman is worth it even if it means less than FS. I like variety, and if I'm in the mood for a slow, sensual, striptease or 60 minutes of sweet talk and caressing, I'll go for it.

Your insight about the multiple encounters "blending together" really hits a nerve though. That's the last thing I want! How can anything be memorable if it's all one big blur in my mind! I'll keep it in moderation and let you know how it goes.

50+ in 6 months!!!!!!!! Wow. That tops anything I've ever done in my life (so far). You sure you're old?????

-- Modified on 6/30/2007 6:27:00 PM

buckeye-kev 15 Reviews 1757 reads
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I said 50 appts, not 50 different providers.  Many of the locals have specifically asked that they not be reviewed - knowing I'm a member here.  They are afraid of LE and tracability issues etc.  Also, I've had several reviews rejected because of no website or the like.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1318 reads
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The most I've done was three in Four days and that was basically because the first two experiences where not that great. The third lady was the one I should have started with! Back then I was wasting a lot of time and money on CL. I now see mostly the same local lady two or three times a month and the occasional lady when I travel for work. I find the experiences to be a lot more rewarding. It's definitely a case of quality over quantity for me which is not the way I viewed things two or three years ago...

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