Do you think providers are picky about how your dressed when you meet them as long as your clean and freshly showered?
I plan on wearing my usual outfit (freshly washed of course). Jeans and t shirt with a slight urban look to it.

Any advice?

Thanks

Not the ones I see. Both of them don't care what I wear. As long as I'm Freshly Showered and ready to play. I usually wear a pair of sweat pants and a t shirt.

...as long as a fat envelope is part of the attire!

I generally dress how I would for any date though, as there is something to be said for the confidence boost that comes from looking and feeling your best (even if semi-casual).  And, since I want a lady to take the time to look her best for me, I like to reciprocate that respect to her.  It's not the biggest thing in the world, but is just part of an approach - I think when you go into these dates respecting the lady as a lady, you drastically increase the chances for you both to have a great time.

They tend to be the more mature gals who are old school on the subject of dress.  If you are only within the confines of their incall or your outcall, then it's probably not such a big deal, but if you two are stepping out to dinner or other social events, be sure to at least wear a shirt with a collar and slacks.  I like to wear a sports coat in the cooler months.

The thing that knocks them out the most are sneakers.  Do you think that someone who spends so much time pondering their own footwear won't notice what's on our feet?

Whatever you do wear on your feet, be sure it's made of something that had parents.

...business casual. I have gone t-shirt and jeans though. I indicate in an e-mail that it's fine for her to dress that way too. Sometimes I just want everything to be relaxed. One thing about how you're dressed is it should be appropriate for the location.

from Khakis to jeans or nicer jogging pants or sweats.  Shirts have ranged from open collar button down to clean new Ts.  I don't wear suits in my daily life anymore (the joy of retirement!)  I'd wear normal daly attire that I'm comfortable in, so long as the clothes & myself are clean.
Being retired, I have the luxury of leaving from home, right out of the shower so ddon't require much additional wash up unless an unusually long drive.

I show up wearing flip flops sometimes in the summertime. I quit "dressing to impress" years ago when I realized most of the guys with "real" money wore whatever the fuck they wanted to and that it was their underlings wearing the two thousand dollar suits.

If you go to an upscale restaurant wearing jeans and a t shirt, but pay the check with your Centurion card, I guarantee you NO ONE is going to be looking down their nose at you. lol  I would suggest that what ever you wear be clean of course.

It's funny some men can wear a tuxedo and look like James Bond, others just look like the waiter. lmao

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Never had bad service or someone not repeat with me, due to shoes.
The only shoes I own are sneakers, flip flips, and work boots.

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and the same thing goes for everything else I happen to be wearing when I show up. Ideally they are going to end up in a rumpled pile on the floor within seconds of us closing the door.

I know some guys like the ladies dressed a certain way and wearing heels etc. For me, I prefer to see them in a t shirt, shorts, and flip flops, or naked and barefeet.
Towels, And sundresses work well too.

As long as you and your cloths are clean you shouldn't get complaints.

I'm in Florida, so I dress FL appropriately, depending on the time of year.  IMHO, it depends on where you are, what kind of date you have arranged, and length of the date.  Just dress for the time of year and temp.....

Swim

resort, shorts, sandals, and an appropriate shirt will help you blend in.  That same attire doesn't work at a business hotel in NYC or Chicago.

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I always wear jeans and a colored crew neck tshirt with not sneakers but sketchers type shoes. I am always freshly showered and usually have recently groomed down there so I can get as much French as possible.

I like to wear jeans so I can stash my money in different pockets so they don't know how much I have that way if they upsell for a specific reason they don't see a fat roll they can sponge more off of. Also if I get arrested which I never have knock wood I'm not sitting in the jailhouse freezing my feet and ass off.

If you're just going to their room for sex then what you plan to wear is fine. Easy to take off quick and put back on quick. Being calm and courteous is the most important thing.

.........for instance, if you are visiting with me at my incall Monday through Friday during business hours, I do ask my gentlemen to dress business casual, or better.  

   During weekend hours, just tell me how you will be dressed, and I will dress appropriately.   I would hope that my gentleman caller would at least wear a collared shirt, and shorts/slacks to fit the season.  I will not be greeting them in sweats, unless they ask.

   If I am visiting a gentleman at his hotel, I really do not care what he wears if I am meeting him at/in his room.   Again, I ask.  About a year ago, I had a gentleman ask to meet me in the lounge of his four/five star hotel.  I showed up dressed in a very nice suit, heels, etc, and he had on a t-shirt, shorts and flip flops.

   I always want to blend in, and hope my gentlemen wants to do the same.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

presentable depending on the occasion of course. I certainly don't want you to be something you are not. Most men I see are in a business suit or sometimes jeans, dress shirt and jacket so I guess it really just depends. Walking in confident and with your head held high no matter what you are wearing allows for a beautiful date in any regard. While confidence is the sexiest wardrobe on a man, I do believe your duds can certainly reflect your confidence level, so I'd say yes, I most certainly care.  

Happy Holidays!

xx kisses
Stevie