Newbie - FAQ

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Iamsoeasy 8782 reads
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I was wondering if the provider enjoys receiving oral?

If there were only one provider in the world, you could ask her. But since we're all individuals (gasp! just like you hobbyists!), there's no "one size fits all" answer. How about checking the lady's reviews-- that will often answer a lot of your questions, grasshopper.

all I can say is, if your good at it, the lady will enjoy it.  How do you get good at it? Simple, PRACTICE, PRATICE, PRACTICE!!!

Yes, jazz32. It definitely takes lots and lots (and lots!) of practice to get good (or better) at it!

when practicing, don't be afraid to ask you're doing OK by her, and if there is something you could be doing better.  If you can provide her pleasure, I can guararantee you will both find pleasure, and satisfaction.

Although I have heard before of a bad BJ, only heard never experienced.  I would assume on the female side there is such a thing as bad DATY?

I recently did DATY for the first time in my life (33, I know sad)  and I asked the provider to give me some pointers.  I think I did OK, no screaming O or anything.   But she said she enjoyed it.  I don't know, I am coming to realize I do not need a GFE I need a FGFE (First Girlfriend Experience) with some honest feedback on my performance.

Or is it the case of any attention paid to you down there is good?

BTW if any providers in LA or coming to LA are offering lessons on DATY I am a willing student with tuition in hand!!

Obviously, there are a number of reasons that it could be bad for the servicing person, but being on the recieving end is rarely bad.  Pain would probably be the one thing most likely to make the experience bad.  On that note...

For the women out there, us guys usually won't tell you if you're doing wrong, so here's a quick pointer.  Since most women will use hand and mouth, be sure that the hand slides and doesn't pull the skin too much.  (Some guys might feel differently about this, especially if they are uncut.)  It's just like anything else.  Lubrication and sliding is good, dry and pulling is bad.

I should have put my last post here instead of the "DATY Precautions" thread, but...

I'd have to say that the vast majority of women probably enjoy receiving oral if they are comfortable with (the hygiene of) the servicing person... especially the women you will find in this hobby, who are usually very comfortable with their sexuality.

I don't know how good I am at it, but I'm going to take a lick at it if she wants me to.  The best customers always get the best service.

Vermonster6196 reads

I recently had a session with a fine provider, and she is now my ATF. I felt so comfortable with her from the beginning that I decided to DATY.  You see, this was the first time I have ever DATY on a provider, as I have always been paranoid about hygiene and STDs down there.  Anyway, she was so sexy that I figure it's all worth it.  I licked and ate her so deeply that she said "wow...you should be giving lessons!".  Gosh, that was such a wonderful session and that Y tasted so great.... I'm a changed man.

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