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I don't think it means anything without a TER review
Sarnia 12 Reviews 4116 reads
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1 / 12

Is "open minded" like "gfe" that has some parameters on its definition?  What does open minded mean?  She is open to threesomes without having to say so? Or anything kinky goes?  Dangerous high risk sex acts? Toys? How open is open?  Is there some checklist or menu that I should know about that goes along with "open minded" to give me a few ideas?

xc222ea 47 Reviews 2795 reads
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2 / 12

I see this sort of language on CL regularly. To me, the only way to have any confidence in the range of services offered is the TER reviews of a well-reviewed provider. Anything else can just be marketing and who knows what you'll get.

balathazar 1 Reviews 4014 reads
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3 / 12

I think "open minded" means she is open to a variety of gentlemen not sex acts/kinkiness/toys etc. I think it means she has no racial/age/size of beer belly restrictions.

For all the other things you are wondering about, you need to read her reviews. The juicy details will tell you what you want to know. If you don't have VIP then get it, the cost is so low as compared to this hobby that it is worth it.

If she doesn't have reviews, and you want to TOFTT then you can find those things out as you ask her questions laying in bed with her.

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xxmeowbabyxx See my TER Reviews 3019 reads
posted
4 / 12

is to go by her reviews. I really don't know what saying 'I'm open minded' would mean. It could mean something different to each person.

It could mean so many things....even BB.Or something as innocent as greek. So please, go by her reviews.

JustATransGirl See my TER Reviews 1895 reads
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5 / 12

I think it can pretty much mean anything from being open to various sexual arrangements to not discriminating.  And really has no use other than as ad filler.

As for me, I sometimes use it in the reverse.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

GaGambler 1809 reads
posted
6 / 12

Open minded means no more than, "you will get laid". Upscale gentleman means, "you will get paid".

keystonekid 114 Reviews 2741 reads
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7 / 12

to read the juicy details of the reviews as well as PM hobbyists (or ladies for that matter) to make specific inquiries.  Do your homework and you will not be disappointed.

Nikki_Greedy See my TER Reviews 1513 reads
posted
8 / 12

Meaning you are non-judgmental toward people in general..

One may also be more 'open' to advanced levels of play.. Excluding risky behavior of course...

However you may find those that state they are 'open-minded' are more 'narrow' than they are 'open' on some subjects and will still sling judgment sometimes..
I am about as open-minded as one can be but I am not an exception to this rule..
After all we are human and we all have flaws..

secksitaim 1465 reads
posted
9 / 12

Thanks for this reply.  I was actually wondering about the "upscale gentleman" thing myself.

tyciol 1444 reads
posted
10 / 12

I would not assume it means anything, the best way is probably to ask her. I'm guessing it means she is flexible and open to your suggestions, but you would still have to run things by her, right?

Greg_H 7 Reviews 907 reads
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11 / 12
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