I've never gone to an escort before and I am currently unemployeed. Every escort seems to ask for references. I have the money to spend but no references. Is there any way I can get a sessions without one?

You'll have a hard time convincing a well-reviewed provider to see you without references.

I was in the same situation as you.  It took a while but I told the agency I would jump through hoops.  Turned out I did not need to, they took some personal info like real name, phone, and address.  A few days later I was good to go.

But that was after searching for about a month.  There are also FBSM ladies that you can consider.

Sorry, I'm so green but what does FBSM stand for?

You'll find nearly all the acronyms explained in the newbie/acronym manual at the top of the page.

You'll proably have a hard time seeing an established lady without refs.

For me, if someone has no refs, my next step would be employment verification. If he told me he was unemployed AND no refs, I'd say no appt.

So you would not see a newby retired gent?

Myself, personaly wouldn't feel comfortable unless I could verify somehow he was legit, not LE and that he was safe.

That's just me though. My peace of mind and safety are worth more than a lost potential client.

Having absolutly no way of knowing you arent' going to hurt me, rip me off, arrest me, is more risk than I'm willing to take.

Like I said though, this is my own personal comfort zone. There are plenty of ladies that have different comfort zones.

I am in the same situation and actually dont have a problem working with providers to establish who I am - BUT if you run your own business and your wife answers the phone THEN WHAT? I mean - "Hello? Yes does XXXX XXXXX work there?" CLICK "Honey?! Some woman just asked for you and hung up!" - Great. That would go over real well.

Like I said, it is my own personal comfort level.  Not all ladies are the same.  I'm sure you could with some research find a lady to accomadate your needs. Don't chastise a lady for her doing what makes her most comfortable.