I have an outcall date.  Can anyone tell me what how to rent a hotel room without revealing my identity?

You didn't tell us where you're located.

I know that on Long Island, you cannot rent a room without showing a photo ID. There's no getting around that one.

I don't know of any motel (or hotel) that would allow you to rent a room without ID.

Relax though, it's pretty darn rare that hotels rat you out, but not inconceivable.

Stick to incalls would be my suggestion.

If there are any motels in your area, they will sometimes do cash transactions; you have to fill out a reg form, but they don't verify your credentials.I have used a 'notell motel' for years doing it this way.

THere are motels that specialize in renting rooms by the hour for obvious reasons.   They don't ask for id