I met a lady from an agency a couple of weeks ago. Everything went smooth with setting it up, she showed up on time, she was as attractive as in her photos but a few things about the way she carried herself , which I won't go into, turned me off from the second she arrived to the point where I didn't want to do her. I kept it to myself and pretended I was only looking for conversation and someone to have a drink with. I also paid posted rate and gave her a tip. When the time was close to up I reminded her how long I had booked the date for. That's when things started to go downhill. She wanted to know why I didn't want to do her and did I think I was better than her so on and so far. I remained polite and told her it was me and I was feeling guilty about my girlfriend etc. When , she was walking out the door she turned and called several explicit names and the left.
So my question is why do they care ? I paid, tipped a little extra and was polite to her. Seems easy to me and something that shouldn't have upset her. Thanks
Who knows, you may have inadvertently given off some bad vibes to her. IMHO, something about you spooked her, just as something about her spooked you. You will never know, so the best thing to do is just move on. Hopefully, the next one you engage will be better.
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He was a customer and from everything he said, he was very respectful, but just not turned on enough to "do her" the only thing he could have done differently was fuck a woman he didn't want to fuck. That might be a valid option if he were getting paid, but he was the one paying not the other way around.
Customers don't have to do the acting, we only have to do the paying. The OP did nothing wrong, and he shouldn't let her little hissy fit bother him at all.
...maybe she was having a crappy day and had a short fuse already and you just were her last straw. Very unprofessional, of course and hardly an excuse. But ya never know.
Did you try to follow up with her by any chance? Or did you not want to poke the hornet's nest?
If he had done as you asked, it's my opinion that a woman who would "go off" on a client for not having sex with her, but still paying her full rate, would have made an even bigger scene if I had cut the date short and only "Paying her a few bucks" instead of her full rate.
I think his question is more along the lines of "what the hell was wrong with her" not "what could I have done differently" but I will grant, you do offer a different perspective, just not the one HE was looking for.
You have a great week too.
Maybe this has happened to her a few times before. Not your issue but maybe she just wanted straight answers so she could improve.
... he did his deed at?
You said Las Vegas, but no where in his original post did he indicate where he did the deed at. So... how did you find out where he was at? The Forest WaitsYou were more than generous. I would definitely contact the agency and tell them about what transpired, her behavior was rude.
Given your side of things as presented here, if you had been honest with her when she asked what the issue was, she would not have taken it well anyways. Some people just aren't compatible.in fact, it sounds like you were more respectful and considerate than many might be. Kudos to you.
As for why she was upset? Hell, no one likes rejection. Ego, fear of a bad review... too many possibilities. IMHO it says much for your character that you care abut her feelings, but remember that they are HER feelings and she has to deal with them... not you. Not a thing you can (or should) do, other than move on to someone you feel more connection and chemistry with.
So my question is why do they care ? I paid, tipped a little extra and was polite to her. Seems easy to me and something that shouldn't have upset her.
And you are correct, he did nothing wrong that I can see. Except some would say tipping was over the top considering...
Steph xoxo
It sounds to me that Forlorn was just not feeling a connection with this lady. He handled the situation with dignity, by showing the lady respect and by not going forward with a sexual experience he had second thoughts about. I've read many posts by experienced Hobbyists and the general consensus is to go with your gut. I would have been taken aback by her reaction as well. Her time was paid for. Just as most providers say they are entitled to say no if they are uncomfortable, Forlorn did the same thing and was chastised for doing so. Shouldn't the standard be the same for the Hobbyist as it is for the provider? I hope Forlorn has a better experience next time.
hit the " exit switch " so when I went to use the head the kids were still swimming around. If the vibes I give off spook a " lady" into doing that then I guess I'm screwed.
Thanks again