Hey there.  Can anyone please tell me how to warn girls on a certain client on this board.  Made an arrangement for a date got directions and had spoken to him 5 min prior to location and nothing.  Wasted time and money that I need right now.. and not to mention so disrespectful.  Can someone please let md know the appropriate board to post this on? thx again
xo

And tell providers to PM you for the info. If you have access to the Providers Only board, you can also post there. To gain access to that board you need a minimum of 3 reviews (you qualify for that part) and a posting history on the boards (you may or may not qualify), and you need to ask for access (use "contact us").

There is also a chance that he had a legitimate excuse. (not likely, but possible) Things do happen. You might want to give him 24 hours or so to explain.

Unfortunately these things happen in this hobby, on both sides.

Not because you're wrong, but a jerk is a jerk and letting him know you know isn't going to help anyone.  

Do you have access to the provider board ? Have you checked out VerifyHim.com?

Post the story on your local regional board, I did w/o giving her name.  I asked guys to PM me if they wanted her handle.  This way you may be able to avoid any possible shitstorm he may start.

Sorry this happened to you Alden, but as previously mentioned, it does happen, and on both sides of the fence.

Swim

explain.

Not sure how you screened him but your screening methods may possibly need to be improved.

You certainly didn't provide the easy and obvious reply to this.  Even though the guy may indeed be a game-player, giving others the benefit of the doubt initially and learning to brush off bad experiences without letting them pull us down - great way for all of us to approach life.

Unfortunately you can't always screen for everything. This type of bad behavior happens on both sides, and even from both "highly reviewed" providers and guys with "impeccable references" to boot.

It sucks, but it is a reality of not only this business, but all other aspects of life as well. Some people are just not respectful of other peoples time.