Okay, I need help, Im completely lost. So new to this and I have no idea where to start, theres so much to learn. How did you guys all start out?
Fortunately for you there is an internet, and sites like TER, which just happens to have a FAQ for Newbies board, and a Self Help Center. Start there. (look at the top of the page by the red and white life preserver)
Good luck! 
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