I've always wondered if providers ever enjoy the sessions with their clients.  Putting the business aside for a minute... Do they get excited about seeing a particular client?  Or what makes it enjoyable with a particular client...  Or is it just barely getting through the day and just shutting everything out.

Yeah. We hate it. We really do. It totally sucks having orgasms all the time.

Kidding. I can't imagine doing this job if I didn't love it. Its not like your average job. It is far to personal and intimate to just be something you do for a paycheck.

Do we have bad experiences? You bet. Poor hygiene, ham handed oafs, NCNS's, guys who try to rip us off, not to mention the risks we run. If I let the bad experiences get to me, I probably would hate what I do and start looking for something else to do.

But in addition to the jerks, I meet alot of really awesome men as well. A few months ago, I shared on the general discussion board that I had learned that one of my clients (I prefer friend) had passed away. I cried all day and I still miss him. Men like him are what make this job far more than just a job, and something I can't imagine not doing.

So no, we don't all hate what we do, though I can't speak for every woman. There are no doubt some women who are burned out, cynical, jaded, whatever you want to call it - but you can usually spot them pretty easily from their reviews.

What's NCNS?

I absolutely enjoy the time I spend with my clients. I have met some of the most interesting, engaging people and have formed friendships with some of them.

No amount of money could force me to spend time with someone I don't want to.

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I can't speak for all the ladies, but I do genuinely enjoy my time.  I enjoy everything from emailing and bantering on the discussion boards to our face-time together.  I like to develop a real rapport with my gents, it makes our time together that much better.  And what's not to like about wine, candles, good food, good conversation, constant compliments and a really hot time?  If I didn't enjoy it, I wouldn't be doing it.  But I've been very fortunate to meet some wonderful men who really know how to treat a lady and I think that makes it enjoyable for all!

XOXO,
Stella

Hi yes I love men they make me feel good and I make  them feel good also ....I always look forward to having clients over ...I love what I do .....let me show you lol

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Pursuits in this lifestyle are a sincere expression of my own personal fantasy as much as it is for the gentlemen I spend time with. The thrill of meeting someone new and the charged excitement leading to the encounter are my addictions. I work as a "civie" as well, so I don’t get to indulge that often, but when I do, I get the most pleasure out of pretending that he REALLY IS my boyfriend (yes, I’m single).

There are a few that I actually look forward to seeing. That’s because they DEFINITELY rock my world!

Just my $.10

Smooches,
Cami

If you hobby long enough you will find ladies who love what they do and those who don't. This doesn't mean that every day is a good day for the better gals out there but they truly do enjoy what they do and it shows.

There is no shortage of cynics out there who don't believe it's possible but, coincidently these are generally the same guys who see providers, even women in general, as rubber love dolls who exist only as a tool for a man's pleasure. While you can certainly pay for that experience if you like I find that the ladies who enjoy there work are much more fun to be with if you happen to enjoy them for who they are, not just what you are paying them to do for you.

and the answer is:

                    YES!!!!!

I would suspect that there are a few ladies who may not be "into" it.  But, I would also hope they are the exception to the rule.

What lady would not enjoy having hot erotic time with a gent.. Personally, all the providers I know are highly oversexed nymphos!  Myself included.

As someone else said, that is (of course), providing the gent has taken the time to arrive freshly showered, used mouthwash and is a good client.  Or choose to take a shower at my place and I have an ample supply of mouthwash.  Lets face it.. cleanliness goes a long way!

Agree whole heartedly.. about the gents view of women in general having an impact on the enjoyment of both parties!

it is now!!!

Who would say.. No we hate it ? LOL Please dont book me >> LOL

I know.  But, I was hoping some girls would go under a double alias and say how they really feel.  Who knows?  Sometimes girls might be so good at acting they really do make me believe they are enjoying themselves.  Just curious about what the perspective was from the other side...

Speaking for myself, I absolutely enjoy it!  I meet some really wonderful guys that I would never get to meet in a regular job.  If you book a date with a provider that's in a hurry to get your money and get you out the door - then don't go to her again.  You should be able to tell if a girl is "into it" pretty quickly - and don't settle for up-charges and rip-offs!