I want to know what the escorts does to screen you. I talked to someone who says they get a refferal from another escort or call your job maybe both. I am self employed and have never hired one before how would the proccess work for me. she wouldn't be able to call anyone for employment verifification or another escort becuase it would be my first time.
It depends on the lady. Some may not follow up with you if they can't check employment because it violates their own policy.
But others are just looking for a way to confirm your identity on the theory that someone who is going to be abusive will not want to leave any way they can be identified. If your phone number is listed, for example, that's one way to confirm.
Find a stellar provider with stellar reviews... Shes discrete...
Send a friendly cordial email.. stating your age ..DOB...maybe direct them to your site. Invite her for a phone conversation.. explain to her you are self employed... once contact is established she can get a better feel for you.. do NOT mention anything explicit in the course of phone contact...
Screening is what you described. I was in the same boat and told the provider she could have any personal info that would make her comfortable. I don't really care how much she knows about me cause I am divorced.(Don't give out your Drivers Lic # or social security#) Then I met her in the bar of the hotel and things went from there. BTW paricipating in the hobby has been one of the best experiences of my life but it is addictive. Have fun and play safe
I don't know how many providers look down at me for my way of screening but I feel that I can meet an abusive loser going to the local nightclub and so long as educated lawyers like ted bundy are out there--you can't make yourself 100%safe so I just tell the guy to meet me for coffee or something like that and legally so long as I participate in other activities w/ my client...I have a stronger defense on false arrests
I normally just look into the guy's eyes and watch his behavior and get to know the people staying at the place that I stay.
I tell the people at my extended hotel that I am a college student conducting surveys for money and that these people have to see a sales demo at my place and I never get bothered by anyone.
In fact, they often knock on my door at night to make sure I had a good day.
You will have to give her something that will confirm that you are how you say you are before meeting her. If you travel, a flight itinerary and photo will do the job for some. To get you feet wet, you may want to try agencies that operate in your home region, they often require nothing more than an address and a phone number. Many agencies, with the exception of the top, most careful ones, carry risks that range from disappointment with the ladies that they send out to miappropriation of the information that you give them. Post your question on your local board and ask members to PM you (if you are a VIP) with suggestions on who to see.