So many of the girls on Eros don't post their rates.  How does one find out what these girls charge for their time?

Contact them and ask.

Yes...that's the obvious answer, but it conflicts with what seems to be the general advice that providers do not want you to discuss fees.  I guess I'm to assume that fees should not be discussed when you are in the actual session, but it's not a problem when you are setting the appointment up?

They must tell tell you what the Vig is one time or another. Ask them via email or telephone. If they refuse RUN, don't walk the other way. It is also ok to simply ask if that is "All inclusive".  Don't go into details or expect a hang up and a black list as in DNS (Do Not Serve). Not rocket science.
Good luck,
pc58

-- Modified on 2/11/2007 3:03:07 PM

It's when the subject of sexual activities in exchange for money that the line is crossed.

I don’t have any “RATES” ….. as a matter of fact, I am an independent consultant.

I give consultation in different forms of relaxation & de-stressing. I’m also an American and a consenting adult over the age of 21. I will never get compensated for any sexual behavior, however as an American and a consenting Adult, anything I may choose to do with another Consenting American Adult is definitely a Freedom I practice often.

I do have suggested gifts or donations to meet with me for my consultation...…-and-... I do accept these gift or donations for the consultation that I am willing to impart to you.

Once we have clearly defined that you understand the relaxation & de-stressing techniques that I have tried to communicate with you, I will consider that meeting complete and will happily excuse myself or allow you to leave. …….  Of course……

If we should find each other attractive, then anything else that may happen is purely by choice and I would not ever accept any compensation for any event or behavior. It would be something we would both consent to as Adults.

“Rates”  imply there is something I am selling or something that is being paid for. The only thing I would personally EVER accept any compensation for would be my consulting of my relaxation & de-stressing techniques.

Most providers do not reply to questions like:
How much do you charge, what are your rates, what does it cost …-or- anything along those lines. I also wouldn’t suggest you inquire about any specific acts or particular behavior. In general...… If it is a question you wouldn’t ask a piano teacher or a dentist then please don’t ask me.

Questions that usually considered acceptable include:
What general location are you in?  
What are the times you are available?
Do you require advanced notice for an appointment?
What type of clothing are you most comfortable in?
Are there shower facilities at your location?



Questions that suggest the same answer but are worded differently include:
Where are you at?
When can I come over and fuck you?
I need a bj in 30 minutes can I come over?
Can you wear one of those bra things where your titties hang over?
After I cum I want to shower is that ok?



If you get the general idea then you are ready to communicate with a provider, if you are still unclear, you might need to private message an experienced hobbyist.
Happy hobbying   kisses ~T