im about to try "services" for the first time and need all the info possible
DO provide more information in your posts to get help.
DON'T expect much help with this post. Not sure what you are even asking for.
there are almost 3,000 post on this board.
If you're that new, stop and read. Don't pass go before you read as much as possible here.
Read the ones relevant and you'll get most if not all the answers to your questions.
Don't be such a lazy fuck to expect people to help you hold your hand
'Services'
When emailing the girl of your choice 
Every provider in their TER profile has an entire section devoted to "Services Offered". Is this a bad word, am I missing something here or is that not what providers do? Doctors, lawyers, plumbers and hair-stylists all provide a service, but if that is taboo for providers, then what is the appropiate word?
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