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Communicating desires/needs/fetish before the first meeting
ch0204 2294 reads
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Hi folks,

I'm a newbie regarding looking for a provider, and would like to ask a question.

As a matter of fact, I have a thing for women's body hair. Not just pubic hair, but I also get turned on by armpit hair. I know the latter armpit fetishism would make me a little bit eccentric, even though I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one.

So here's my question: for clarification and communication purposes, may I discretely list a request about this (whether asking for keeping the pubic hair or both hairs) in the correspondence with the provider after the screening, especially when it is described as "shaved" in their grooming category on the website/ads or it's clearly shown in the pictures? Or it's totally fine as long as they mention "fetish," "fetish friendly" or any other implication in ads?

I read the posts about etiquette and learned it's better not to discuss details and services in emails, but still I wanted to know what people would do about it.

Please let me know your thoughts and advice. Thank you in advance!

It might be better to start out with a woman or with women who already offer what you like than trying to find some who will have to fit into it.

Posted By: ch0204

Hi folks,  
   
 I'm a newbie regarding looking for a provider, and would like to ask a question.  
   
 As a matter of fact, I have a thing for women's body hair. Not just pubic hair, but I also get turned on by armpit hair. I know the latter armpit fetishism would make me a little bit eccentric, even though I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one.  
   
 So here's my question: for clarification and communication purposes, may I discretely list a request about this (whether asking for keeping the pubic hair or both hairs) in the correspondence with the provider after the screening, especially when it is described as "shaved" in their grooming category on the website/ads or it's clearly shown in the pictures? Or it's totally fine as long as they mention "fetish," "fetish friendly" or any other implication in ads?  
   
 I read the posts about etiquette and learned it's better not to discuss details and services in emails, but still I wanted to know what people would do about it.  
   
 Please let me know your thoughts and advice. Thank you in advance!

Just start a thread in your city of interest to see if any provider responds.

ch0204168 reads

Sounds good. Thanks for your advice!

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