It might be some time before I get my VIP, so I'd like to ask a VIP question. When a provider says she ie GFE does that mean she does bbbjcim, or most do and some dont or some do and most don't.And maybe get some names of prviders who do and dont! thank you.

Too general of a question.  Spend the $20; I guarantee you will not regret it.

any names for me kid that will?

Look for a provider who has quite a few 10's for performance. Although not technically a requirement, many of us won't give a 10 without cim. Advertising as a GFE most definitely does not guarantee cim is on the menu.

Sorry, but that is question for your regional board, not the newbie board.

This has been debated about over and over again.  I have always argued that GFE should include DFK, BBBJ and DATY with everything else, like Greek, being negotiable.

Many providers say they are GFE but some won't DFK, others won't do BBBJ, so don't assume anything about the term "GFE."  

Look at reviews for specific acts.

So don't assume that the letters GFE will make it happen for you...

I've never had one that would not.  It was never officially selection criteria, but I can't imagine not getting that at home.

It's not a selection criteria for me either but it is fun once in a while. I'll never forget the first time an Asian provider stuck her finger up my butt and gave me a prostate massage as she sucked me dry...nothing feels quite like it...

if more civies swallowed or even just CIM & spit, then providers' rates would tumble as the demand would go waaaaayyyy down.  Yeah, I'm generalizing; I know there's  a lot more to the hobby than that [like Asian chicks fingering your prostate ].  But still...

Hey, I'm here too, so I'll admit quantity isn't what it should be.  Even so, I still think that the advertised product needs to include certain activities until the hook if firmly planted.

Would you take a tablespoon or so of cum into YOUR mouth?  

Is it my cum, and is it being transferred from your mouth???  Then the answer is YEAH BABY!!!

I don't kid myself into thinking that the ladies that have passed through my life didn't have some measurement of things required to be happy.  It doesn't need to be the same act.  Besides, I never jammed my dick down someone's throat and massaged her neck until my load went down.  If she's not into it, that's fine.  It's just that it would preclude me from being in a LTR with her.  After all, that's not such a horrible fate now, is it?  LOL

That is the only way you will know!  In the "services" area of the review it will tell you specifically:

BJ (with or without condom)
CIM

Unfortunately there is no getting around it!  You have to either ante up the membership or you will never know... lol

If you are concerned about paying for VIP, they do offer international money order or cashiers checks or you can use a prepaid Travel Visa.