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NewbieOne 4197 reads
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I have read a few reviews where guys literally ask for a cover.. kinda lets F suggestion ...I have had a few great encounters where great things happen but not Pen.. should I be asking for a cover when I want to make sure that’s part of the experience? Some girls seem to  know yet others are happy to run to the finish line other ways unless explicitly asked ...

Thoughts appreciated

In my experience, and I think the experience of most others here, asking for the cover more commonly means, "Great BBBJ, but I think I'm ready for the next step."  
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It does not mean, "[Inside your head: It seems that she wants to move along to the next stage. How shall we proceed? With or without?] Out loud: "I think I would like a cover, please, rather than to do it raw."

Posted By: NewbieOne

I have read a few reviews where guys literally ask for a cover.. kinda lets F suggestion ...I have had a few great encounters where great things happen but not Pen.. should I be asking for a cover when I want to make sure that’s part of the experience? Some girls seem to  know yet others are happy to run to the finish line other ways unless explicitly asked ...  
   
 Thoughts appreciated
My other thought is that your post is poorly written to the point of being unclear and I had to guess your meaning. "... F suggestion ...I have"? "... but not Pen.. should I"??

NewbieOne342 reads

Yes sorry poorly written but in a nutshell I have left a few encounters where I felt like I should have said something and didn’t and as a result left satisfied but not having met all my goals for the visit...  

So perhaps I am supposed to ask for a cover before it’s too late ...

Yes, definitely speak up if there's a particular way you want to finish. The provider will most likely be waiting for you to speak up if you want to change activities. By not saying anything, she may think that's the way you want to finish. I'll ask "do you have a cover?" when I'm ready for the main event.

You are still being obtuse. We can't read your mind.  
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Describe your encounters more clearly. Is this what is happening?
You show up.  
You get BJ but it doesn't go further.  
You are wondering, "What the fuck do I have to do or say to "get all my goals" for the visit?"
Your goal is FS Full Service.
If I had to guess, I'd say you are scheduling hh sessions.  
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It is common for the participants to get caught up in the foreplay and BJ. Guys like it and, overall, it is less work or more enjoyable for their hostess who might not want to suggest moving on on her own. One way to advance the proceedings is to ask for the cover.  
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Try it the next time and see if you reach your goal.

Posted By: NewbieOne
Re: More common meaning
Yes sorry poorly written but in a nutshell I have left a few encounters where I felt like I should have said something and didn’t and as a result left satisfied but not having met all my goals for the visit...  
   
 So perhaps I am supposed to ask for a cover before it’s too late ...


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If you're getting BBBJs (bare back blow jobs) and you want actual sex, aka full service of FS, then just ask. Ask however you want, say "ok I wanna fuck you now," if you feel like it. Have a little fun, she's not gonna bite, unless you ask her to.

As for condoms, I always bring two with me. In the past I've had the girl run out or they don't have my right size, so I always bring my favorite brand with me. This will avoid the girl going "oops I ran out, we'll have to stick to blow jobs." or the thing slipping off because it's not fitting right.

I mean, is that the issue? You can't get past the blow job phase because you're not sure if condoms are available?    

In addition, you seem too timid. Just tell her to stop giving you a blow job and that you want to do something else. Be a man and take control, what's the point of sex with hookers if you're going to be timid about it? And always, if your provider is not providing the services you're requesting, you always have the option of moving on.

Make sure they're in a sealed box. Many providers will refuse to use condoms that are not in a sealed boxed.

I've never heard of that before. I prefer the brand I use, so I always ask if it's ok to use what I've brought and none of the girls I've met so far have refused.

I have literally said, after a half hour of DATY, "Can we fuck?"

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